Well that was a good nap!!
No really good dreams to talk about, but i did come to a strange realizationWhile I was making my waffles after waking up. I have never had a serious realtionship with a girl, yea ive had a lot of girlfriends, none of them seem to have been real serious. I have never dated a girl for longer than 8 Months. What makes it not serious is that our friends never got along so we couldnt hang out much, there was tooooo much sex involved and when i say toooo much i mean like 3 4 times a day for weeks straight and even more on the wekends. Its more or less like our relationships where a bunch of one night stands, just comin ang goin. I really dont want that anymore. Standing there watching the waffles cook I realized that if I really truley wand to change my life I need to take the next relationship seriousle and work at it 110%. So girls Any comments would really help out here. Later
No really good dreams to talk about, but i did come to a strange realizationWhile I was making my waffles after waking up. I have never had a serious realtionship with a girl, yea ive had a lot of girlfriends, none of them seem to have been real serious. I have never dated a girl for longer than 8 Months. What makes it not serious is that our friends never got along so we couldnt hang out much, there was tooooo much sex involved and when i say toooo much i mean like 3 4 times a day for weeks straight and even more on the wekends. Its more or less like our relationships where a bunch of one night stands, just comin ang goin. I really dont want that anymore. Standing there watching the waffles cook I realized that if I really truley wand to change my life I need to take the next relationship seriousle and work at it 110%. So girls Any comments would really help out here. Later
About relationships:
I'm of the opinion that 70% is needed. Some say 100%+, but then it's just all you giving and giving. That's not realistic. Some say 50%, but that's just a kind of minimum requirement between two people. You need to want the realtionship enough to work on it, but at the same time, it can't be your everything. People still need some boundries (emphasize "boundries" not "walls") because we must have an identity and asperations of our own. I'm talking balance here.
I just noticed you never mention love. Sex is great, but without love, it's just fucking. Nothing wrong with fucking either. When it comes to a serious relationship though, you gotta have some love. What's the point other wise right?