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i read something that really angered me today. it was a christian website that promoted chastity. now, i have no problem with people who wait for marriage as far as sex goes, but this site was ludacris.
the main points i got out of it were: that men do sexual things for arousal, while women do it for acceptance and attention| any woman who engages in sexual acts is not doing so because she wants to, she is doing it because she desires attention or respect| oral sex is something that is completely selfish on the man's part and it is not at all congruent with the idea of giving.

my problems with this:
-women have sex drives too!
-meaning women do things for arousal as well
-women can have oral sex performed on them too, and while it can be an issue of control, sometimes people give other people oral sex by choice. some people like to give their partner pleasure that is solely focused on the receiving end.

i guess it's all sinful though because matt from fucking real world new orleans says so (that's who does the website.). god, i get so sick of preaching. here, look for yourself (whoops i had it wrong the first time) : www.nomoho.org
honestly, maybe i am just crazy and morally corrupt.

then, i got on this website that basically told you how to dupe your female partner into masturbating in front of you. that pissed me off in a completely different way.

all i can think about is sex lately, but the world has made it such a negative thing that it can get somewhat sickening.