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Friday Jan 23, 2009

Jan 23, 2009
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Hello all

Just a few quick thoughts for you. It's begun to warm a little here finally and as the weather improves so does my mood. The fine weather has inspired me to try and make peace with the ex but she can't seem to find it in her heart to forgive and forget. It's all a little funny to me as I have no interest in reuniting or even really being friends. I do however wish to end the hateful nature of things lately. I can't exactly pretend like I'm innocent but it does seem to me like there''s plenty of blame to go around. It's just so damn confusing to me how easily good intentions can turn to scorn.

Anybody out there have stories or advice they'd be willing to share on the subject?

Constructive criticism is always welcome in this corner of the world.


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renna:
I wish I had some useful advice. My ex boyfriend was a crazy bastard who threatened to burn down my house and hurt my family, so I had absolutely no desire to have a concluding conversation with him. Heh.
Best of luck, though.
xx
Jan 23, 2009
mellon:
What's already happened is done, and you can't change it. So if there is something you would have done differently, or think you didn't do well, remember that, and carry it forward, but remember it as a lesson, not as guilt. And when she's ready to hear from you, then talk, but do not try to force it so you can get closure - that's selfish, and it doesn't work anyway. Forgive yourself, and forgive her. Be available if she needs to talk about it. Otherwise just move on. You can't fix anybody but yourself.

Jan 23, 2009

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