so had to write early this morning before going to work ,so i didn't have a horrible day at work. the short of it is is that last night i tried to talk to my mother about finances - yes, still spoiled and taken care of by mom, somewhat- all i wanted to know was what my total was, and why i was getting calls from various ummm... "collectors" of which i knew very little about, she flipped out, left the house and i preceeded to have dinner with my stepdad and find out many interesting tid bits from him about her attitude with this sort of thing.. then i preceeded with a freak out call to artpie which i know he tried to calm me, but i was so pissed i'm sure very little of it really made any sense. I ended up going to bed very early (for me 10ish) and my mom came home some time shortly after.
I know that all of this is my fault for not being more adult and really finding out from the get go what and where my name and money was being used, but i was nieve and took advantage of being taken care of. Learing experience for me... 1 be an adult, 2 take over my own finances or at the very least, not believe everything i'm told. thanks for letting me bitch ... now off to work with the parents and an oh so exciting hour off this morning to have my woohaa examined
I know that all of this is my fault for not being more adult and really finding out from the get go what and where my name and money was being used, but i was nieve and took advantage of being taken care of. Learing experience for me... 1 be an adult, 2 take over my own finances or at the very least, not believe everything i'm told. thanks for letting me bitch ... now off to work with the parents and an oh so exciting hour off this morning to have my woohaa examined
As far as the money goes,
Find out everything. get the records.
You might need to get a lawyer involved and you don't really wanna do that
Hope all is well. What a pain in the tushy having to deal with finance crap like that, especially with family involved. You'll make it through it though.