crynryan

I have a buddy that is having girl issues. I, being a male can only give so much advice. Below you can read a conversation that he and I had. Heres the scene. My buddy, lets call him Steve. Steve has a g/f that lives long distance. 500 miles to be exact. One day, steve calls his g/f like any other typical day to ask how her day has gone. However, this time it was different, a guy answers the phone. Shocked by the tone of a males voice, his first initial reaction is to ask the most basic of questions. "Who is this?" The unknown male replys, "hey is this steve, your g/f is fucking awesome, i am glad i met her. PHONE CLICKS. Steve in shock and awe cant believe what had just happend. He calls her back, only to discover the phone has been turned off. Steve turns in to Tony Soprano and decides to get some fucking answers.
An hour later, still no progress.
History: Steve is a sensitive emotional person (not a pussy) very in tune with his feelings. Not the greatest lover, SEX i mean. And now on with the conversation.

STEVE: whats goin on man
ME: not much, chillin killin
ME: how was last night, you got home late so it must have been stimulating
STEVE: i drank a whole bottle of wine
STEVE: rough day yesterday
ME: did you cry on marie's shoulder
STEVE: no
STEVE: i didnt even talk about it
ME: wow. Really?
STEVE: yeah really
ME: im surprised
STEVE: im tired of talking about it man
STEVE: theres only one person i have anythign to say about the situationa dn its abby and when she has had enough space to clear her head and emotions and get it together she will call me and we will talk
STEVE: until then man fuck it man ive got my life to live
ME: wow. where did this new found glory come from?
STEVE: im not saying it isnt hard but fuck man i dont like feeling like this my friends sure as shit dont like me feeling like this so its out of my hands and the ball is her court
STEVE: nothing i can do
STEVE: well fuck man
STEVE: so yeah
ME: so who did you talk to?
STEVE: i dont wan to go into it but i jus did alot of thinking yesterday and my brother helped but its im exhausted of it
ME: o ic
ME: just curious
STEVE: abby and i got into it yesterday and its jus fucking with me. long story short i want to fix shit now and she needs some space and i didnt get it. and i kept pushin and pushin and we didnt end on the best of moods
STEVE: so i consoled with my bro after work for an hour in a parking lot and then i went to maries
STEVE: its are first fight since we started this long distance thing and the 2 of us need to get on the same page to work together to get passed this together
ME: did it ever dawn on you or should i say do you get the feeling that maybe she doesnt want to be on the same page as you
STEVE: no we talked about it yesterday
STEVE: and she wants to be on the same page
ME: no she does. or no she doesnt
ME: oh ok
STEVE: she wants to work out she wants to work together we both want the same things
STEVE: but brotha, Abby is a good person jus remeber u only get to hear my perception
ME: oh i understand, but just remember this. I remember when you were like this before with the same person. granted i dont know the whole story. however i do recognize that you are heading down that slippery slope that took place not to long ago
STEVE: very much so and we botha re aware of the slope that we are encountering and we both know that we need to work together to take a new route
STEVE: i jusreally appreciate u being there for me the other night
ME: i hear ya. I am a firm beliver that actions speak louder than words and that sometimes when i formulate ideas in my head in regards to the actions she portrays to you and i have to wonder.
STEVE: and i agree
ME: and being the devils advocate is sometimes hard for people to swallow. i think love blinds or covers the truth because our hearts want to believe its for ever
STEVE: i agree brotha


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