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I am in Dallas for the next few days... at my sisters for the big x-mess. The parents are here and have been strangely silent bout the fact that i have a hole in my nose. Thier way of dealing with it. Their way of dealing with a lot actually. I am just waiting for it, the one remark that they will slide in somewhere and it will probably be about being disappointed. My nose dammit. But I dont want to bring it up and the saying nothing almost (almost) makes it worse. I want reaction dammit!