I have to make some drastic changes because:
I am afraid of the dark. When I was a kid I used to sneak out and roam around at night time and I loved it. That started when I was about 5 and would dance around on the lawn in a fairy costume because I thought the fairies would come out....
Now I don't do that...
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I am afraid of the dark. When I was a kid I used to sneak out and roam around at night time and I loved it. That started when I was about 5 and would dance around on the lawn in a fairy costume because I thought the fairies would come out....
Now I don't do that...
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I have a really weird neighbour....
Every now and then, early in the morning *insert dim light, fog and light rain* I catch him opening the hood of his car and saying to whatever is inside (wife/abducted child/nest of rats) .....'hulllloooo lovelies'
Every neighbourhood needs a resident scary person and a haunted house.
Every now and then, early in the morning *insert dim light, fog and light rain* I catch him opening the hood of his car and saying to whatever is inside (wife/abducted child/nest of rats) .....'hulllloooo lovelies'
Every neighbourhood needs a resident scary person and a haunted house.
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deelishus_weenie:
Yeah, nope - that wasn't what I was saying. Casual sex is awesome in many ways. It's not for me, but that's just me.
I'm saying that someone who wants the particular variety of sex this guy is offering would have to have something a little wrong. He'd offer the same thing whether it was casual sex, or monogamous relationship sex. Me, me, me - and every time he appeared to care about his partner's needs, it would only be a mask for his honest belief that he shouldn't have to care.
To seek out someone who would continually move the goalposts emotionally, in such a way as to give his partners a very real feeling of disappointment, and lead to hollow and pleasureless sex. Ugh - I mean, the sort of rooting this guy offered barely even sounded like it would be pleasurable on a completely physical level. If I was only gonna fuck someone once, I'd make it COUNT, not use them as a... receptacle.
I'm saying that someone who wants the particular variety of sex this guy is offering would have to have something a little wrong. He'd offer the same thing whether it was casual sex, or monogamous relationship sex. Me, me, me - and every time he appeared to care about his partner's needs, it would only be a mask for his honest belief that he shouldn't have to care.
To seek out someone who would continually move the goalposts emotionally, in such a way as to give his partners a very real feeling of disappointment, and lead to hollow and pleasureless sex. Ugh - I mean, the sort of rooting this guy offered barely even sounded like it would be pleasurable on a completely physical level. If I was only gonna fuck someone once, I'd make it COUNT, not use them as a... receptacle.
coralsea:
Yeah, exactly. There's a difference between enjoying a particular sexual bent and and gaining personal and shared pleasure from the mutual act and having some kind of sexual....autism.
Hope I make sense.
Hope I make sense.