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Tuesday Jul 20, 2004

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Okay..I have a serious question for you all because I have a friend who is going through this...
If you found this comment on a girl's profile online, written by your SO:

"Only a girl as gorgeous as you, would I allow to give me as much shit as you do. If I didnt adore you so damn much, we'd have to have sex or something. heh.. wink"

1 - This is a girl that is unknown to my friend.
2 - The comment "if I didn't adore you..." is fucked up.
3 - Talking about having sex with another woman.
4 - The guy is hiding this from my friend using really silly, discreditable lies (i.e. "I don't even post on that website anymore")
5 - The kicker: this guy, when they were involved before, had a horrible loyalty/fidelity track record. He insisted this time that that sort of thing not happen and the relationship be committed and monogamous.

This sucks...for my friend, of course. frown
She has been nothing but loving, loyal and fidelitous from the beginning, even when he was a prick. Even when she was a paranoid, scared overbearing freak because of all the shit he did.

Maybe they should have never gotten back together, no matter how much they love each other.

I feel ill...I mean...she does.
creative_slacker:
Just because some ranodom weirdo posts in a journal doesn't mean it's all infidelity. Maybe this girl is fruity loops, or maybe it's harmless flirting. I don't think you (I mean your friend) should put too much weight on the subject. If you love someone, you love them... if you have to question their love, then maybe it's insecurity that keeps you apart from really knowing the other person. In love, you always take the chance to accept a person and their past as well as them accepting your skeletons.

I have no advice for you... I try not to tell someone what to do, but if you want to talk about it more feel free. My email is postmodernpoet@yahoo.com or you can use esp to reach me. heh.
Jul 20, 2004

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