Wednesday Apr 27, 2005

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I realized today that I'm slowly narrowing down the type of woman that I want to be with not by postive qualities that I admire, but by the negative qualities that I can't stand......Coming Soon the Survey...

Well anyway guys the moving continues. hopefully I should have it all done by tonight unless there are some unforeseen problems. I finally got the name of this Rock Festival from Big Mike ;that slacker....Its Heavy Rebel Weekend or something like that and its the beginning of July. I figure I'll look up some info on my own so that I can finally pin down some dates for my roadtrip.

_--What qualities do you consider deal breakers with someone you are getting to know or are dating?

P.S. If you haven't gone to see hitch yet you should.
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jcup:
There's a bunch of qualities I consider deal breakers, or at least qualities that make me decide that they're not for me.

1) (and most important) Alot of baggage. If the girl has a ton of issues, then I know that it's gonna be too much work and alot of unnecessary drama and bad things. I've learned the hard way about this. Too bad it usually takes a while to find out a person's baggage.

2) If she treats people she's close to unfairly or like shit. I dont like inconsiderate people who think that they can be an asshole to people or take out shit on people and they should just accept it. I like girls who are fair and not super moody or bitchy.

3) If I get sick of her or annoyed easily by a girl, then it obviously will only get worse later. My current girlfriend is the only person I never get sick of, and I've been with her Alot longer than I've been with any past girlfriend. If you're still stoked on your girl after years and think she's the best person and only gets better, then you met THE ONE.

Sorry for this long ass comment, but just remember...there's alot of girls out there, never settle untill you find the right one for you. I cant wait for the survey. That's gonna be a fun one.

[Edited on Apr 28, 2005 12:09AM]
xip:
I, too, am narrowing down what I can't stand the more people I date. I learned a lot more from my previous boyfriend than from the one I just ended things with, but there are some things there too...

From the first boyfriend I learned that I can't:
-date someone wayyy too old for me, we seriously had nothing socially in common...all his friends were 40...all mine were 18...
-date someone who is anal about their belongings and everything being "just so"
-date someone who tells me what I can and can't do
-have a Dom
-date someone shallow, manipulative, arrogant, selfish, or childish... I can deal with them separately but not ALL OF THOSE together
-and I realized I really really can't fucking stand self-righteous people, and he was the most self-righteous son of a bitch I've ever met

From the second:
-I need a boyfriend who will be artistic and creative in showing his love for me...buying me a teddy bear once when we start dating doesn't cut it
-You don't need to be fucking rich, but HAVE A JOB and be able to SUPPORT YOURSELF
-don't flip out and scream at me and start throwing shit when you don't get your way

That's it... I'm getting closer I can feel it
xip

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