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It happened again. What I was trying to post as a compliment this time to size 10 women was turned around and seen as an insult. I slipped and said something rude about thin women without meaning to. I put a disclaimer at the end of my topic post because this had all happened before and I didn't really want it to happen again. To be honest, I didn't think it would, but I figured, there's always SOMEONE who wants to argue. Well I'm very sorry about what I said, thin ladies. I honestly didn't mean to insult anybody because I think skinny girls are way hot (if you want my oppinion, more attractive than girls my size or bigger so it's not like I'm just some skinny girl basher or something). But it's hard to actually feel sorry for something you did wrong when, instead of gently pointing out your fault, 5 people immediately start telling you what a cruel and horrible person you are. I appologized anyway, and hope to make peace within the group, because I'd like to stay and get along with everybody. I think it's a wonderful group and I'm glad women (and men) of all sizes are able to enjoy it.

But I am really having trouble on this site lately. It seems everyone is not as open-minded as they pretend to be. In fact, their minds are just as closed as the people they ridicule. They're just set up on the other side of the road is all. Same kind of people. Different point of view. I don't get along well with this type, especially the ones whose missions in life seem to be ridiculing other people and making them feel insecure.

I'll admit, I'm a strange breed. I despise PC-ness. I hate politics. I hate liberals, maybe more than I hate right-wingers. But in general I hate the concept of politics. Everyone's lying, and that's all you need to know. There are lots of wonderful people on this site and, just like me, they all do and say things that are perhaps too rash and thoughtless.

We're human. I'd like to take this moment as a reminder of that fact, and to urge everyone (especially myself) to please lighten up a little bit. When someone says something stupid, let's try to remind them gently instead of jumping into a war right away. Let's give the benefit of the doubt. I know it sounds corny, but suicidegirls should be a better place to hang out than it is thesedays. I've been a member for a while now and I dislike it more and more ever time I'm on. I'd like to see a positive change in all our behavior, once again, especially mine. So I hope nobody flicks me any shit about this entry, but I suppose I won't post a disclaimer this time about it. If you say something I think is dumb, I'll just delete it and concentrate on what positive people have to say.