Suside Girls- Redefining Beauty. There are a heck of a lot of members on this site- and many ways to interact with each ither. forums, boards, groups, chat, the girls... I have met probably about 100 people I talk to almost weekly. Everyone here says- YOUR HOT! PRETTY! CUTE! ect. I see it not just in me- but everyewhere. Logic tells me that not ever paying member of suside girls is a '10'. We cant all be hotties, its sad- but true. No one ever says that though.
Now dont get me wrong- I love the positive enviroment- its great for the ego... But I have noticed in 2 of the groups I belong in, some people who are submitting sets are told do it! try again! OOHHHH HOT SET! couple of things on this:
1. Everyone is beautiful in their own way- God made everyone of us- and it is easy to see people in a flattering light in here
2. Not everyone, however... Should be encouraged to subit an app to Suside Girls. It may seem cold of me to say... But comeon. You have to know a person to see their inner beauty, but you cant know someone by pics.... So they have to have a certian amout of astethic value- you know what I am saying?
3. Some people get really really upset when they are rejected by Suside Girls- and that sucks! But if they dont stand a fighting chance, inst it just cruel to encourage them?
I dont know why this has been bugging me. I guess its that I give true compliments- but if we are all in essence 'spamming' other people with compliments, dont they lose their value?
Now dont get me wrong- I love the positive enviroment- its great for the ego... But I have noticed in 2 of the groups I belong in, some people who are submitting sets are told do it! try again! OOHHHH HOT SET! couple of things on this:
1. Everyone is beautiful in their own way- God made everyone of us- and it is easy to see people in a flattering light in here
2. Not everyone, however... Should be encouraged to subit an app to Suside Girls. It may seem cold of me to say... But comeon. You have to know a person to see their inner beauty, but you cant know someone by pics.... So they have to have a certian amout of astethic value- you know what I am saying?
3. Some people get really really upset when they are rejected by Suside Girls- and that sucks! But if they dont stand a fighting chance, inst it just cruel to encourage them?
I dont know why this has been bugging me. I guess its that I give true compliments- but if we are all in essence 'spamming' other people with compliments, dont they lose their value?
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julian_delphinki:
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lostjohny:
what defines beauty? who defines beauty? i agree with almost all of what you are saying, but what limits are set by society and what limits are set by ourselves? objectification is a razor thin sword. if you are an artist, like me, there is as much beauty in a 90 pound woman as there is in a 350 pound woman. let all who inquire decide on what beauty is. but alas, this concept has been suppressed for your convinence, in a durable plastic case, with no artificial sweetners or additives.... 