Paying for sex.
It's hard to believe that a guy who has always been so much into feelings and caring for people and against the exploitation of women can now feel that there's something positive about a man paying a woman for sex (or a woman paying a man, or a woman paying a woman, or a man paying a man). Not only do I see nothing wrong with it (as long as the sex-worker is not being controlled or exploited), there is something emotionally "clean" and clear about the transaction that is somewhat freeing. I'm sort of a stingy bastard, and always feel like why pay when I can get something free, but on the other hand the payment allows both parties to proceed without confusion and with everything clear and taken care of. No emotional tangles, no muss, no fuss. Within limits and boundaries such as these there can be unfettered freedom. Does anyone understand, feel the same way, feel differently?
It's hard to believe that a guy who has always been so much into feelings and caring for people and against the exploitation of women can now feel that there's something positive about a man paying a woman for sex (or a woman paying a man, or a woman paying a woman, or a man paying a man). Not only do I see nothing wrong with it (as long as the sex-worker is not being controlled or exploited), there is something emotionally "clean" and clear about the transaction that is somewhat freeing. I'm sort of a stingy bastard, and always feel like why pay when I can get something free, but on the other hand the payment allows both parties to proceed without confusion and with everything clear and taken care of. No emotional tangles, no muss, no fuss. Within limits and boundaries such as these there can be unfettered freedom. Does anyone understand, feel the same way, feel differently?