KISSED BY A STRIPPER
Recently, I went to a strip club. It's been a long while since I'd done that, and I'd never had a "lap dance." I was treating myself.
I sat at the bar, watched a couple dances, saw the first dancer approach a guy next to me, talk to him, and whisk him off, and then was approached myself by the next...
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Recently, I went to a strip club. It's been a long while since I'd done that, and I'd never had a "lap dance." I was treating myself.
I sat at the bar, watched a couple dances, saw the first dancer approach a guy next to me, talk to him, and whisk him off, and then was approached myself by the next...
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In the spirit of open discussion I'm going to present a diatribe from my friend El.
El's a fun-loving, level-headed, very smart woman whom I met on a pic-posting adult site awhile back. She and I used to ridicule and satirize some of the other posters. But since becoming a full-time wife and mother of many young kids (hers and her husband's from previous marriages)...
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El's a fun-loving, level-headed, very smart woman whom I met on a pic-posting adult site awhile back. She and I used to ridicule and satirize some of the other posters. But since becoming a full-time wife and mother of many young kids (hers and her husband's from previous marriages)...
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katrina:
Could you work at unpleasant work hours and would you be able to do some "special work" for me?
katrina:
So I guess that you had a real orgasm then? No?
Let's all rise from the dead this weekend.
Let's push aside the boulder of conventionality.
Let's smash expectations and surprise everyone, including ourselves.
"I didn't know you could do that!" someone will say.
If we do something so remarkable as to live authentically.
If we believe.
In our own capacities, and beyond.
Happy fertility festival -- that's of course what all the eggs and bunnies...
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Let's push aside the boulder of conventionality.
Let's smash expectations and surprise everyone, including ourselves.
"I didn't know you could do that!" someone will say.
If we do something so remarkable as to live authentically.
If we believe.
In our own capacities, and beyond.
Happy fertility festival -- that's of course what all the eggs and bunnies...
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silveronthetree:
I was gonna let this go, but it seems obvious to me that you are so impressed by your own whit and intelligence that you can`t admit when you`re wrong.
Deleting comments instead of trying to explain when its obvious you have a brain just proves what I`m saying.
These are my last words on this. I won`t bother you again, just making sure you know my position.
[Edited on Mar 30, 2005 6:19AM]
Deleting comments instead of trying to explain when its obvious you have a brain just proves what I`m saying.
These are my last words on this. I won`t bother you again, just making sure you know my position.
[Edited on Mar 30, 2005 6:19AM]
ms_molotov:
thanks for the birthday wishes, sounds like you've been ruffling some feathers 
I get a kick out of sg's who scold you if you playfully semi-proposition them -- tut-tutting as if they were members of Bush's Christian Coalition.
First there was a certain sg superstar who, after I emailed an admittedly outrageous remark, told me "my husband is very amused by this"--as if she were an everyday housewife scandalized at a dirty note passed to her by...
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First there was a certain sg superstar who, after I emailed an admittedly outrageous remark, told me "my husband is very amused by this"--as if she were an everyday housewife scandalized at a dirty note passed to her by...
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andromeda:
I don't think it's "sex work" but more of something fun. I luv playing around 
Dirty talk is to be expected at the least! 
Talk dirty to me!
Dirty talk is to be expected at the least! Talk dirty to me!
vuokko:
I think the reasons for doing SG and the expectations of what one will get fromit vary greatly from person to person and that anything else would be dull. We are not clones and we all have our opinions. That said, I do not flirt with anyone any more than I would as a member. (I was a member for some time before becoming an SG.) It is a business and I wouldn't do anything BAD for business, however I sell photos (and to a degree my "image," if you will), but not my company. I talk with people because I enjoy it. If I no longer enjoy talking with someone, I allow my social graces and not my business instinct to handle it. In general, I do not imply sexual activity between myself and members, and I appreciate reciprocation on that front. However, when it does happen I usually just ignore it and/or the person.
On a side note, saying that a woman should expect certain behaviours based on what she is/ isn't wearing sounds remarkably similar to some "she deserved it" attitudes I've heard. Yes, I know it is not the same, but there is a whiff of it present. Even if a woman is doing SG specifically for sexual attention, it is not necessarily for sexual attention from you specifically. Tricky? Yes. True? Yes. You have to read people in your interactions and see how they feel about things before jumping into some kind of implication game if you don't want to offend anyone. That's just life.
On a side note, saying that a woman should expect certain behaviours based on what she is/ isn't wearing sounds remarkably similar to some "she deserved it" attitudes I've heard. Yes, I know it is not the same, but there is a whiff of it present. Even if a woman is doing SG specifically for sexual attention, it is not necessarily for sexual attention from you specifically. Tricky? Yes. True? Yes. You have to read people in your interactions and see how they feel about things before jumping into some kind of implication game if you don't want to offend anyone. That's just life.
REWIND
Flowers flank an open casket. Clumps of mourners gossip in hushed tones of feigned reverence. Max, wearing a suit a size too small, is off to one side, talking with his sister. Alice is shrouded in a long, flowery dress that was in fashion when their father was still playing first base and mourning their mother.
"Theres something I need to ask him," she...
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Flowers flank an open casket. Clumps of mourners gossip in hushed tones of feigned reverence. Max, wearing a suit a size too small, is off to one side, talking with his sister. Alice is shrouded in a long, flowery dress that was in fashion when their father was still playing first base and mourning their mother.
"Theres something I need to ask him," she...
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luxdivon:
"the latest set from Apnea made me almost weep with knowing I can't ever have her (or him, lithiumpicnic) . I hate her(&him, for getting to take those fabulous pictures." ditto..
xip:
I used to be in love with Apnea. Now my intentions have shifted to Manko and a handful of members.
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THE SEX WORKERS ART SHOW
came to the Ann Arbor Film Festival last night for what was said to be its final performance. This is the brainchild of one Annie Oakley. I arrived late (due to watching one of the festival entries) and left early (due to boredom).
I salute the people who work in the sex industry and I salute the perceptive, creative artists...
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came to the Ann Arbor Film Festival last night for what was said to be its final performance. This is the brainchild of one Annie Oakley. I arrived late (due to watching one of the festival entries) and left early (due to boredom).
I salute the people who work in the sex industry and I salute the perceptive, creative artists...
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alyk:
I think the fact that they work in the sex industry wouldn't make their art more interesting...As a housewife, I don't think my everyday life is that different from a sex workers...It's work to have sex with my husband and he pays me for it...It doesn't make me anymore interesting and my drawing instructor will attest to the fact that it also doesn't make me very creative...
REWIND
Perky flowers flank an open casket. Mourners huddling in comfort clusters use hushed tones of feigned reverence to gossip. Max, wearing a suit a size too small, is off to one side, talking with his sister. Alice is shrouded in a long, flowery dress that was in fashion when their father was still playing first base and mourning their mother.
"Theres something I need...
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Perky flowers flank an open casket. Mourners huddling in comfort clusters use hushed tones of feigned reverence to gossip. Max, wearing a suit a size too small, is off to one side, talking with his sister. Alice is shrouded in a long, flowery dress that was in fashion when their father was still playing first base and mourning their mother.
"Theres something I need...
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xip:
This story tickles my fascination with time and cause and effect.
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Top o' the mornin' to you.
Kiss me I'm Irish.
But wear your Erin-go-bra, please.
And a shamrock in your teeth.
And we can share whiskey in the jar.
And sing ballads and recite poems drunkenly into the wee hours.
I still say Dublin has the prettiest girls in the world.
Kiss me I'm Irish.
But wear your Erin-go-bra, please.
And a shamrock in your teeth.
And we can share whiskey in the jar.
And sing ballads and recite poems drunkenly into the wee hours.
I still say Dublin has the prettiest girls in the world.
marieceleste:
The worst thing really is that my brain is like a confused gadfly, bobbing about in this direction and that without any sense from one moment to the next. Sigh. Whatever, I'll just let it go about it's business.
Sorry I haven't replied to your email, I'm still mulling it over. I realised yesterday that I had *completely* missed the point of your hairbrush. Ha. I'm hoping to get some photos done next Monday. I'm meant to be getting my shit together for that today. Meant to be.
And re your earlier journal, as to what would make SG hotter. Some of the comments suggested that less girls and higher photo quality would do the trick. Well, I yes and no. I think the home-made quality of some of the sets make them even hotter, like you could know this girl! She's the girl you walk past in the street *every day*. And then again, I think some of the sets lack imagination and finesse, but hey, that's just my opinion. Although it is not actually democratic, there does seem to be something *everyman* (what is the word I'm looking for here?) about the sets on SG.
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Sorry I haven't replied to your email, I'm still mulling it over. I realised yesterday that I had *completely* missed the point of your hairbrush. Ha. I'm hoping to get some photos done next Monday. I'm meant to be getting my shit together for that today. Meant to be.
And re your earlier journal, as to what would make SG hotter. Some of the comments suggested that less girls and higher photo quality would do the trick. Well, I yes and no. I think the home-made quality of some of the sets make them even hotter, like you could know this girl! She's the girl you walk past in the street *every day*. And then again, I think some of the sets lack imagination and finesse, but hey, that's just my opinion. Although it is not actually democratic, there does seem to be something *everyman* (what is the word I'm looking for here?) about the sets on SG.
[Edited on Mar 17, 2005 1:28PM]
marieceleste:
And anyway, less new girls would probably cut my chances, so I'm definitely not up for that!
If you were in charge of making the sets on sg hotter, what would you do?
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rosesarered:
I would put more curvy girls on.
But that's kind of a personal preference.
I am cocky, and I am that good :p
But that's kind of a personal preference.
I am cocky, and I am that good :p
alyk:
You would get the impression from looking at this site that caucasians are the only race willing to take their clothes off...why is that?
Randy dumb questions:
How do you un-bookmark someone if you're tired of reading her journal?
Why is it considered sexy to shove a gun in your mouth?
How come there are so many slang words for penis but only a couple for testicles?
If you bark orders during sex, is that considered bestiality?
Foreplay parameters: If an erection lasts for more than three hours and...
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How do you un-bookmark someone if you're tired of reading her journal?
Why is it considered sexy to shove a gun in your mouth?
How come there are so many slang words for penis but only a couple for testicles?
If you bark orders during sex, is that considered bestiality?
Foreplay parameters: If an erection lasts for more than three hours and...
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rosesarered:
How do you un-bookmark someone if you're tired of reading her journal?
No idea. I hope it's not me!
Why is it considered sexy to shove a gun in your mouth?
I don't think it's sexy. But gun tattoos are super hot.
How come there are so many slang words for penis but only a couple for testicles?
I don't like sex slang words.
If you bark orders during sex, is that considered bestiality?
If I keep whimpering "Oh My God!" is it worship?
Foreplay parameters: If an erection lasts for more than three hours and you haven't taken Viagra, should you still seek medical help?
Three hours of foreplay? I would fall asleep.
Why surgically alter your body instead of altering your mental attitude toward your body?
Surgery is much easier and less time consuming.
How come in porn videos a guy can get a really expert blow job but still not be able to cum unless he jacks himself off in the woman's mouth? Are the men THAT desensitized? Or are they just trying to control the money shot?
Because he isn't with me.
Steroids--if they work for baseball players, why haven't poker players tried 'em?
I have no answer.
AND:
why is there millions of words for a sexually active "slutty" woman and none for a man who acts the same way (who has the same sexual activity level)???
AMEN!
[Edited on Mar 12, 2005 6:15AM]
No idea. I hope it's not me!
Why is it considered sexy to shove a gun in your mouth?
I don't think it's sexy. But gun tattoos are super hot.
How come there are so many slang words for penis but only a couple for testicles?
I don't like sex slang words.
If you bark orders during sex, is that considered bestiality?
If I keep whimpering "Oh My God!" is it worship?
Foreplay parameters: If an erection lasts for more than three hours and you haven't taken Viagra, should you still seek medical help?
Three hours of foreplay? I would fall asleep.
Why surgically alter your body instead of altering your mental attitude toward your body?
Surgery is much easier and less time consuming.
How come in porn videos a guy can get a really expert blow job but still not be able to cum unless he jacks himself off in the woman's mouth? Are the men THAT desensitized? Or are they just trying to control the money shot?
Because he isn't with me.
Steroids--if they work for baseball players, why haven't poker players tried 'em?
I have no answer.
AND:
why is there millions of words for a sexually active "slutty" woman and none for a man who acts the same way (who has the same sexual activity level)???
AMEN!
[Edited on Mar 12, 2005 6:15AM]
caroline:
I think is not ready yet 
Right now.
That's all there is.
But it's abundant.
The past is history, and the future is fiction.
Quit spending any energy outside of the present.
That's the key--it's all here, now.
I'm lecturing myself. 99.9 percent of the time my brain is chattering on with worry, regret, or useless anticipation.
It's a sick way to live--but we all have this disease. Lost touch with...
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That's all there is.
But it's abundant.
The past is history, and the future is fiction.
Quit spending any energy outside of the present.
That's the key--it's all here, now.
I'm lecturing myself. 99.9 percent of the time my brain is chattering on with worry, regret, or useless anticipation.
It's a sick way to live--but we all have this disease. Lost touch with...
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xip:
The video isn't available anywhere in public... yet.
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lillithvain:
Hey there, glad you liked the outfit...
I got bored one day and sat around sewing it together. It's my own crazy creation.
I got bored one day and sat around sewing it together. It's my own crazy creation.
It's all about the courage of your convictions.
It's about reveling in life.
Refusing to give in to fear.
Keeping the fire burning inside you.
Staying true to your heart.
No matter what.
Trusting in life.
Waking up.
It's about reveling in life.
Refusing to give in to fear.
Keeping the fire burning inside you.
Staying true to your heart.
No matter what.
Trusting in life.
Waking up.
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vuokko:
Thanks for the e-mail! Feel free to talk with me about feminism on my journal anytime. I'd love to hear from you!
madamuk:
Thanks, I do enjoy a good tease. A lingering passionate tease, hehe. 
hm...or else?
About your journal entry, that's not legal, is it?