cmaxwell

Why does everyone try so hard to make
--
desire, passion, lust, love, playing, bodies, provocation
--
into a problem?


Why make anything in life into a problem?
Why not just enjoy it?

WANNA KNOW WHAT YOU THINK

1. What is more provocative, nudity or seductive clothing of some sort?
2. Can you be both a voyeur and an exhibitionist?
3. What's the one wild thing you'd keep doing even if you weren't told you're never supposed to do it and it's naughty?

Question of the day:

What gets your juices flowing erotically that does NOT involve touching?

For me it's pretty conventional--cleavage, a nice ass--but also unconventional: a witty, taunting phrase; a whiff of intelligence and danger; a glance that I can't readily interpret; mystery.

LIBERALTHAURUS WRECKS

ALERT: Some of the following may be deemed POLITICALLY INCORRECT. Do not read on if you are offended by independent thought.



I attended a house party sponsored by MoveOn.org, designed to give input into the future direction of this group, which raised tons of money and organized scads of volunteers to help first the Dean campaign and then the Kerry campaign -- two...
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What is the difference in making love to someone you care for and having sex with someone you aren't friends with, just for fun?
Is the intensity of sensation different? How so?
Is there a difference in willingness to explore? How so?
Is trust important to you?

I'm wondering these things, because I've always been a "sensitive" man, alert to feelings. But how does that...
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Have you ever been filled with intense lust for someone whom you utterly despise as a person? Have you ever had sex with someone you know you hate?

Have you ever paid or been paid for sex? How did it affect the sex?

Have you ever fallen in love with someone who's not the person you made him or her out to be, just a...
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SHAME ON US
While most liberals sit around whining and talking about how depressed they are, the U.S. Marines are storming Fallujah, killing "insurgents" (Resistance fighters) and hundreds and eventually thousands of men, women, and children. Besides more than 1,000 of our troops killed and thousands wounded, estimates are that more than 10,000 Iraqis have died in our illegitimate invasion.

Where are the protests? Why...
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Paying for sex.
It's hard to believe that a guy who has always been so much into feelings and caring for people and against the exploitation of women can now feel that there's something positive about a man paying a woman for sex (or a woman paying a man, or a woman paying a woman, or a man paying a man). Not only do I...
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Don't shy away from seeing THE INCREDIBLES because you think it's a kids' movie. It's fabulously entertaining, creative, and endlessly amusing. It's...fucking...incredible. All hail Pizar and Brad Bird (whose THE IRON GIANT is also just a great animated movie).

In the Midwestern university town where I live, a pall seems to hang over the city. It isn't just the typical clouds of a dreary November day. On the day after the re-election of Bush, all my friends and coworkers are depressed, anxious, and angry. To a person, we can't believe that the worst president of our lifetime has been reelected. We are afraid for...
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I hope we have just witnessed the most sorry election of our lifetimes. The worst president possibly in history has been re-elected, thanks to the continued inability of the Democratic Party to muster a credible, principled opposition. Gazillions of dollars wasted on awful TV ads -- and now the lawyers will be unleashed again.
Take a deep breath, find someone you love to be with...
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Halloween is my favorite holiday because people get out of their constricted selves, including their constrained physical boxes, and become fantastic shapes, dreams, and nightmares. It's also the only time left in this culture when strangers can come to your door and be welcomed.

Efforts to sanitize this holiday have partially succeeded. Now children say "Happy Halloween!" instead of "Trick or Treat!" and go to...
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