here comes another weekly homework @rambo @missy
I found a quote of this poem on @sunflower_ blog and it really brings it exactly to the point! The message is really touching for me personally because I think it is important to surround yourself with good people who actually care about you and 'let you live'.
I found myself in too many destructive relationships in my life and I really suffered for years from being surrounded by people that were not interested in my well being or better they thought what they want me to be will be for my best. Constant will breaking and emotional abuse made me to a severely depressive and from eating disorder suffering shadow of myself. I had to move twice in Europe to really keep a healthy distant and still sometimes things I am not far away enough. The move to Sweden 2 years ago and meeting my awesome boyfriend here made me realize how worthy life is but also how worthy I am! All my great potential that was hidden in fear, anger and doubts can finally shine. I can't say that I don't have very bad days anymore but I think that people don't recognize me anymore (in a positive sense) is a good proof. Changing the relationship to myself and loving myself also makes me having this deep love for people around me and the world in general!!!!!!!
love yourself and you will be able to love! eat good! live good! surround yourself by good people! if you are not happy dont stay in the situation just as I did! Don't be afraid of changes although the circumstances that doesn't make you happy have become a 'habit or security' such as feeling trapped in a job you don't like. You got this one chance and you should live and let people live! <3
it is written by Mewlana Jalaluddin Rumi
Be with those who help your being.
Don't sit with indifferent people, whose breath
comes cold out of their mouths.
Not these visible forms, your work is deeper.
A chunk of dirt thrown in the air breaks to pieces.
If you don't try to fly,
and so break yourself apart,
you will be broken open by death,
when it's too late for all you could become.
Leaves get yellow. The tree puts out fresh roots
and makes them green.
Why are you so content with a love that turns you yellow?
ANOTHER GOOD ADVICE <3 (don't take yourself too serious and have fun)
Always be yourself unless you can be a unicorn then be a unicorn!
