chop13

Yesterday it was 22yrs since my father died,he was 41 (9/12/44 - 2/12/86)

My father in his early 20s

last night I got a call that my aunt (on my mother's side) died.She was 64 and suffered from Lupus.
She had been in the hospital since Feb 2,when she was admitted because she had pneumonia.
I was at my aunts house 22 yrs ago when I was told that my father had died.
When I was 5 and my grandfather died,I was at my aunts and she told me...now shes gone.

I always get sad this time of year and have always hated valentines day as you can imagine.
Now this compounds the fact,my aunt dying on the same day.

2008 has not been kind thus far.