my head feels like its going to explode.
backstory:
my wife and i seperated about 3 months ago. we have been having difficulties for a while, but nothing that i thought couldnt be solved through talking everything out or going to a marriage counselor. one thing to keep in mind, dear readers, is that she has cheated on me like 8 or 9 times since we have been in hawaii. i have already forgiven her that, as she admitted to being a 'sex addict'. the only reason she wasnt seeking treatment is that she was afraid that it would get her kicked out of the army. she wants to leave me now because she says she misses being able to go out and party. we have been together since she was 16, and i think she regrets not being able to experience what a lot of teens do, namely partying etc.. i can understand that, to a degree. i have no problem with her going out to clubs with the girls, or guys for that matter, from work. personally i do not enjoy clubs, as they tend to be filled, at least in this area, with ignorant 'homeboys', and they play music that makes me wanna drop a pa system on my head.
anyway, i really want her back. as stupid as it may sound given what has happened in the past, i cant picture myself being without her. she has been in Louisiana for the past 3 weeks doing some sort of training exercise with the army, and it has been nigh unbearable.
ladies, i ask you for any suggestions that may help me win her back. so far, i have lost like 35 lbs, started exercising daily, and am enlisting in the Navy so as to be able to provide for our family. (we have a 16 month old daughter) i am out of ideas. any suggestions would be greatly appreciated. i am open to doing anythingshort of killing someone.
backstory:
my wife and i seperated about 3 months ago. we have been having difficulties for a while, but nothing that i thought couldnt be solved through talking everything out or going to a marriage counselor. one thing to keep in mind, dear readers, is that she has cheated on me like 8 or 9 times since we have been in hawaii. i have already forgiven her that, as she admitted to being a 'sex addict'. the only reason she wasnt seeking treatment is that she was afraid that it would get her kicked out of the army. she wants to leave me now because she says she misses being able to go out and party. we have been together since she was 16, and i think she regrets not being able to experience what a lot of teens do, namely partying etc.. i can understand that, to a degree. i have no problem with her going out to clubs with the girls, or guys for that matter, from work. personally i do not enjoy clubs, as they tend to be filled, at least in this area, with ignorant 'homeboys', and they play music that makes me wanna drop a pa system on my head.
anyway, i really want her back. as stupid as it may sound given what has happened in the past, i cant picture myself being without her. she has been in Louisiana for the past 3 weeks doing some sort of training exercise with the army, and it has been nigh unbearable.
ladies, i ask you for any suggestions that may help me win her back. so far, i have lost like 35 lbs, started exercising daily, and am enlisting in the Navy so as to be able to provide for our family. (we have a 16 month old daughter) i am out of ideas. any suggestions would be greatly appreciated. i am open to doing anythingshort of killing someone.
phillipe:
Man..seek professional help. As soon as you can. Try to get your wife to do the same. best of luck.