OK, So I think I would like to find another Photographer. The one I have worked with is kewl but I think he is a lil pushy on what to do for a shoot. I mean I give an idea and he seems to like it but then steers in another direction and then ends up being something I totally dont want to do. So if there is anyone who would like to do a shoot and is a lil more open to my ideas too, message me or respond to this. I am in northern cali. I prefer a lady or ans SG but if i am open with a male photographer as well. Thank you so much. And for anyone who may have some recomendations let me know also. Every lil bit helps. Thanks Peeps! 
But what about (Let's see if I can spell this right) yseult87. She's in San Fran and a pretty good photographer (photographess?).