It's 3 a.m., not what time this site says this post has been made. I think I accidentally set something to to some different time zone, I don't know. I think if you add about 3 hours to the time it says on my postings, then you'll get the actual time of my posting.
This is a drunk posting, which I've yet to do here on SG. Tonight I went to a wicked party, which consisted of an awesome house dance party, complete with a lazer light show and a visit from the cops. The night was going awesome, until this one girl started trying to chat me up. Now, I'm a friendly guy, and I like a good conversation, but I'm pretty sure that sometimes what is actually just me liking talking to someone comes off as interest in another sort of way, i.e. active flirting. But I wasn't interested in this girl beyond casual chit-chat. Unfortunately, she was interested in much more than that from me. For the rest of the night she was all up ons, and I had to try to avoid her. I told my friend about my predicament, and whenever this other girl would get near, my friend would grind with me in an attempt to deter her. It worked pretty well.
I would never have done anything with this girl, but boy did the attention feel good. I realize that's selfish and probably pretty dickish, but you have to realize that as a semi-awkward academic it's not every day that a woman practically throws herself at you.
When I wasn't avoiding this girl or dancing my face off to some awesome tunes, I was negotiating a friend's decisions whether to come to the party, since his ex was there. He wanted to come, but this girl broke his heart, and she was basically making out with anyone who was available, so I needed to find a way to subtly deter him from attending. I managed to pull it off, not really sure how.
Here is my insight of the night: this shit never changes. I am 27 years old, and I'm still dealing with high school shit. But that's just the thing: what we categorize as high school shit is actually life shit. It doesn't get better with age, it's always the same. But that's not necessarily a bad thing.
This is a drunk posting, which I've yet to do here on SG. Tonight I went to a wicked party, which consisted of an awesome house dance party, complete with a lazer light show and a visit from the cops. The night was going awesome, until this one girl started trying to chat me up. Now, I'm a friendly guy, and I like a good conversation, but I'm pretty sure that sometimes what is actually just me liking talking to someone comes off as interest in another sort of way, i.e. active flirting. But I wasn't interested in this girl beyond casual chit-chat. Unfortunately, she was interested in much more than that from me. For the rest of the night she was all up ons, and I had to try to avoid her. I told my friend about my predicament, and whenever this other girl would get near, my friend would grind with me in an attempt to deter her. It worked pretty well.
I would never have done anything with this girl, but boy did the attention feel good. I realize that's selfish and probably pretty dickish, but you have to realize that as a semi-awkward academic it's not every day that a woman practically throws herself at you.
When I wasn't avoiding this girl or dancing my face off to some awesome tunes, I was negotiating a friend's decisions whether to come to the party, since his ex was there. He wanted to come, but this girl broke his heart, and she was basically making out with anyone who was available, so I needed to find a way to subtly deter him from attending. I managed to pull it off, not really sure how.
Here is my insight of the night: this shit never changes. I am 27 years old, and I'm still dealing with high school shit. But that's just the thing: what we categorize as high school shit is actually life shit. It doesn't get better with age, it's always the same. But that's not necessarily a bad thing.
niobe:
Hello. 