Okay, so as far as the crappy friend goes, I am still somewhat disappointed, but pretty much over it. I am much more cheerful today! Yeah! 
I decided that I am not going to put so much energy into that relationship. It just isn't worth it anymore.
I need some input. I know there is at least one person that is going to be able to answer this inquiry. I had surgery two weeks ago on Tuesday. I have improved so so so much since after the surgery, and I am in even less pain then before the surgery...kind of.
If I am lying down or sitting with padded support behind me I am, for the most part, pain free. Although, if I try to walk around or stand for longer than five to ten minutes I get shooting pains up and down my legs, plus my right side hurts (I also had endometriosis removed from my right ovary), and then I start to get really horrible cramps. All of the pain feels different than before, but I don't know if I should be completely better.
I had endo removed from behind the uterus, the right ovary, and it was removed from all the ligaments supporting the uterus. My question is: Is it likely that I am still recovering and need to wait things out more? God, I can be so impatient! But, not even my incisions are healed. My friend who just had similar surgery is all healed.
It was my friend that had been admitted to the hospital and I was so so so worried about her. I just find out exactly what happened yesterday. She let me know she was okay before that, but I didn't have details.
It turned out that she had a very sever ulcer and it burned a hole in her stomach. As a result, she was bleeding internally. They did a laparoscopy (same surgery I had) and sewed up the hole. She told me her incisions were healed in days. I am so happy that she is okay. So happy that I can't express it. I thought about her so much. It killed me to know my friend was hurt and I couldn't do anything, not even give her flowers.
Funny thing is that she felt the same way about me! I love her to death!
Thanks for all the advice! I hope the new year is treating everyone well!
I decided that I am not going to put so much energy into that relationship. It just isn't worth it anymore.
I need some input. I know there is at least one person that is going to be able to answer this inquiry. I had surgery two weeks ago on Tuesday. I have improved so so so much since after the surgery, and I am in even less pain then before the surgery...kind of.
If I am lying down or sitting with padded support behind me I am, for the most part, pain free. Although, if I try to walk around or stand for longer than five to ten minutes I get shooting pains up and down my legs, plus my right side hurts (I also had endometriosis removed from my right ovary), and then I start to get really horrible cramps. All of the pain feels different than before, but I don't know if I should be completely better.
I had endo removed from behind the uterus, the right ovary, and it was removed from all the ligaments supporting the uterus. My question is: Is it likely that I am still recovering and need to wait things out more? God, I can be so impatient! But, not even my incisions are healed. My friend who just had similar surgery is all healed.
It was my friend that had been admitted to the hospital and I was so so so worried about her. I just find out exactly what happened yesterday. She let me know she was okay before that, but I didn't have details.
It turned out that she had a very sever ulcer and it burned a hole in her stomach. As a result, she was bleeding internally. They did a laparoscopy (same surgery I had) and sewed up the hole. She told me her incisions were healed in days. I am so happy that she is okay. So happy that I can't express it. I thought about her so much. It killed me to know my friend was hurt and I couldn't do anything, not even give her flowers.
Funny thing is that she felt the same way about me! I love her to death!
Thanks for all the advice! I hope the new year is treating everyone well!
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Good call with the friendship, besides when she wants to start having you be a biogger part in her life, she will get in touch with you.
Hope monday went well!
Catch up w/ you later.
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