charla6

Unfortunately most of us are assholes looking for a fun time. Many of us would like to find wonderful individuals to spend our time with. Unfortunately for us (our version of your dilemma) most girls want to ramble on while you sit there like an accessorie and drag you along with what they want to do. No respect for what you want and a nightmare of a fight just to try to do what you like.
Difficult to find good matches. Had hoped that with computers someone would have come up with a way to help match us humans.
As to your boyfriend, who knows. Maybe he likes you but isn't getting enough? Or he just wants to see what else is available. We are guys. Just like you ladies we are always curious if the grass is greener on the other side.

Yes, being human sucks.