chalko

It's official...I'm gonna keep growing my beard out.

Half the girls are scared of it...and the other half want to stroke it! And my wife likes it when girls want to run their fingers through my beard and so do I. Pretty funny when a random woman wants to give my beard a tug.

SOOooo....I'm turning 40 soon. What should I do?

Whats a good 40th birthday party supposed to be like? Should we go get a nice room somewhere? Go camping? Have a party at home with all the friends? I'm still hoping my wife finds a nice girl to play with. But alas...she has a hard time flirting with girls. It's always up to me but when I meet a girl who seems interested, and I end up telling her I'm married, it seems to scare them away. I thought the younger girls would be into that these days. But I guess it could seem a bit creepy. All we want is a friend to have some fun with, maybe spoil a little, go out to dinner every now and then. Have some fun in the back of my truck or in the hot tub back at home. Maybe party together and share a little secret that no one else knows. Have a fun little romp in the shadows at a party where we can see others but no one can see us...you know, that kind of stuff. That's not asking too much is it?
To all my "girl" friends out there. Any advice?