Xulien: trust me, hes not bi
Xulien: ive had my fair share of bi/gay people to know one
Cat Loves PCB: what's that supposed to mean?
Xulien: he wasnt bi
Cat Loves PCB: well, yes, but what was that statement supposed to mean?
Xulien: that i have enough experience with gay/bi people to know how they act
Cat Loves PCB: how do they act?
Xulien: right, like you dont know
Cat Loves PCB: I know tons of lgbt people and I haven't seen how they "act"
Cat Loves PCB: I'm a member of an lgbt organization
Xulien: because you are one of them, you arent inclined to notice
Xulien: because in your mind you want to seem "normal"
Cat Loves PCB: I don't think I act a particular way based on my sexuality
Cat Loves PCB: and most of the time when I tell people they're surprised
UnCrFe: (nods)......it's a case by case basis
Cat Loves PCB: (and I mean in person, not online folks)
Xulien: well, either they arent observant enough, or they are lieing
UnCrFe: you can't generalise
Xulien: yes, you can
Cat Loves PCB: I'm glad you know me better than I know myself
Xulien: i dont need to know you
Cat Loves PCB: it's not like I'm an individual or anything
UnCrFe: (shuts up)
Xulien: i didnt say you werent
Cat Loves PCB: but the way I act is based on my sexuality
Xulien: what i ment was that every single gay/bi person i have ever encountered always has a set of similar characteristics
Cat Loves PCB: like?
UnCrFe: yes
UnCrFe: I want to see this
Xulien: ok, gay men have a preocupation with looking their best at ALL times
Xulien: its not so much characterisitcs that EVERY one of them has, but a combination of characterisitcs
Xulien: a high pitched "choir-boy" voice is a dead giveaway though
UnCrFe: (teehehe)
UnCrFe: sometimes
Xulien: always
Xulien: i lived with one my freshman year
Xulien: its a damn shame he was a closet one though
UnCrFe: I'm just making the point that not every person with characteristics you are saying is gay, or those without said char. aren't gay / bi
UnCrFe: heheh
UnCrFe: why?
Xulien: because, he had nothing to be afraid of
Xulien: i dont know why he was in such denial
ugh...
(and very few people I know in real life know I'm bi, unless I've told them, or they're a close friend or something...)
-13 days 'til Cat! is legal
Xulien: ive had my fair share of bi/gay people to know one
Cat Loves PCB: what's that supposed to mean?
Xulien: he wasnt bi
Cat Loves PCB: well, yes, but what was that statement supposed to mean?
Xulien: that i have enough experience with gay/bi people to know how they act
Cat Loves PCB: how do they act?
Xulien: right, like you dont know
Cat Loves PCB: I know tons of lgbt people and I haven't seen how they "act"
Cat Loves PCB: I'm a member of an lgbt organization
Xulien: because you are one of them, you arent inclined to notice
Xulien: because in your mind you want to seem "normal"
Cat Loves PCB: I don't think I act a particular way based on my sexuality
Cat Loves PCB: and most of the time when I tell people they're surprised
UnCrFe: (nods)......it's a case by case basis
Cat Loves PCB: (and I mean in person, not online folks)
Xulien: well, either they arent observant enough, or they are lieing
UnCrFe: you can't generalise
Xulien: yes, you can
Cat Loves PCB: I'm glad you know me better than I know myself
Xulien: i dont need to know you
Cat Loves PCB: it's not like I'm an individual or anything
UnCrFe: (shuts up)
Xulien: i didnt say you werent
Cat Loves PCB: but the way I act is based on my sexuality
Xulien: what i ment was that every single gay/bi person i have ever encountered always has a set of similar characteristics
Cat Loves PCB: like?
UnCrFe: yes
UnCrFe: I want to see this
Xulien: ok, gay men have a preocupation with looking their best at ALL times
Xulien: its not so much characterisitcs that EVERY one of them has, but a combination of characterisitcs
Xulien: a high pitched "choir-boy" voice is a dead giveaway though
UnCrFe: (teehehe)
UnCrFe: sometimes
Xulien: always
Xulien: i lived with one my freshman year
Xulien: its a damn shame he was a closet one though
UnCrFe: I'm just making the point that not every person with characteristics you are saying is gay, or those without said char. aren't gay / bi
UnCrFe: heheh
UnCrFe: why?
Xulien: because, he had nothing to be afraid of
Xulien: i dont know why he was in such denial
ugh...
(and very few people I know in real life know I'm bi, unless I've told them, or they're a close friend or something...)
-13 days 'til Cat! is legal
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i have a friend whom everyone ALWAYS assumes is gay. he has a high pitched voice, hates sports, is neat, etc. [can't say he's obsessed with his appearance, tho']. he absolutely, positively is NOT, though.
i KNOW this...i mean i REALLY know it, if you know what i mean