Well I'm feeling much better about my pending break up. I talked to a friend yesterday who put a lot of things into perspective, and made me see things in a much better light.
This girl recently had her ex resuface in her life, and has been relentlessly pursuing her. Based on the fact that she had so many negative things to say about that relationship, I was completely amazed she'd even want to talk to him. My friend said that some people are just used to shitty relationships, because that's all they know. Even if they had a good one, they wouldn't understand how to work in that situation. People just do what they know, because that's what they are comfortable with. He than also asked why I'd want to even consider being with someone like that.
The truth is, I don't.
I'll be out tonight accepting hugs in the east village if anyone wants to join me.
This girl recently had her ex resuface in her life, and has been relentlessly pursuing her. Based on the fact that she had so many negative things to say about that relationship, I was completely amazed she'd even want to talk to him. My friend said that some people are just used to shitty relationships, because that's all they know. Even if they had a good one, they wouldn't understand how to work in that situation. People just do what they know, because that's what they are comfortable with. He than also asked why I'd want to even consider being with someone like that.
The truth is, I don't.
I'll be out tonight accepting hugs in the east village if anyone wants to join me.
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i saw you on 14th and 3rd a week or 2 ago, you rode right by me in a cab while i was waiting for the bus.
good luck with the hug collection!
My friend said that some people are just used to shitty relationships, because that's all they know. Even if they had a good one, they wouldn't understand how to work in that situation.
could that any more be the story of my life? it's so true though, and even when i've met a nice guy who isn't going to fuck me over, i sit there and wait for it, i wait for something to make me know "i knew it!", and sometimes my head goes places it shouldn't.
you have a big hug from jersey coming to ya...i may be around saturday eveningish? i'm not too sure yet, i'm going to brooklyn superhero supply co. with someone on saturday, and i don't know if they want to hang out after or if we're going our separate ways afterwards. anyway, if i am, want to grab a beer? it's literally all i can afford