caparina

*Sigh* it's the weekend, time to relax, last day before back to busy. Or this is what I assume, the time to relax part anyway...... I wake up and walk downstairs to find, yet again, that no one seems to feel the need to tidy up after themselves!

This is driving me crazy, and it's only going to get worse the more pregnant I get. I Don't believe it is to hard to put your beer cans away, or rinse your dishes off after using them or hell at least put them in the sink. I do NOT enjoy coming down from my nice sleep to be overwhelmed by a huge mess in the living room/kitchen.

Put your cake back in the box and put it back in the fridge please, and pick up the blankets you used please dont leave them lying on the floor. Please throw out your garbage and put away your empty cans. If you spill something is it really that hard to grab some paper towel and clean it up? Does it take that much time out of your day to put the movie discs back in their cases and maybe put them back on the shelf? Im sick of having to sit down a half hour a couple times a week and find all the loose dvd's to put them in their proper cases!

I do not mind as much tidying up during the week when you guys go to work at 7 and do not have the time to pick up before work but on a weekend you have all the time you need, yet somehow you STILL leave me a mess to clean as you walk out the door to go enjoy you days off. I realize that you all do not have to sit in this house all day because you work or go out or whatever it is you are doing BUT I DO and I would just once like to be able to wake up in the morning sit down with my cup of coffee and relax in a nice clean living room before I start my day.

I also dont enjoy the fact that you got annoyed the other day that you had to come home and do the dishes "She's home all day why can't she do them, I work you know I'd like to come home and relax". I have done the damn dishes every day here but that once, you know why I decided not to do those particular ones? BECAUSE THEY WERE YOUR GOD DAMN DISHES! You may go out to work but I have got a different kind of work that comes with a whole different kind of stress. I Keep house, I raise my child and my sisters, might not sound like much but you try being 21 weeks pregnants chasing around one 3 year old and one 4 year old and trying to keep the house as clean as possible so that when your dumb ass comes home you can't complain about mess.

Maybe I am over reacting maybe it's my being pregnant making me grumpy but Its not much to ask that you pick up after yourself. Last time I checked you were an adult... older then me buy a few years actually and its quite sad that I have to feel like your mother and tell you to keep your shit clean!!

*Sigh* and to Jeff Thank you so much for being their to help when you can and for going out to buy my pregnant ass 15 chocolate bars when Im craving something sweet and for putting up with my bitchy complaining about my sister and her boyfriend haha.

Well now that I have ranted my behind off I feel a little better although there is still the problem of having to clean up after them. Oh yes they have taking off for the day as usually and if I felt I could relax in a mess I would leave it but, alas, the woman in me needs clean lol. Here is a peek of what, on a daily basis, I have to pick up after. Now granted sometimes I know that me or my child has some doing in the mess but I dont mind cleaning up after that. What gets me is that I do not get help EVEN if the mess made was one that was not made by me or my wee one.

Living room (I have already picked up beer cans and threw the now bad cake out then had a little grump attack, was told to calm down by my 3 year old, and am now sitting with my coffe doing this instead of cleaning lol)


And the kitchen which i have not touched and am most upset about since I had it spotless before dumb and dumber got home yesterday and the boy had his brother and his girl over.



And this, my little smile maker who was following me around to get in front of the camera with a smile on her face, she loves the camera... How could I not take a picture


Now quickly before this blog is so overwhelmingly long that no one whats to read it I thought I would add some positives!! FIRST, I got myself a new tattoo!! The boy paid for this one for me, It was origanaly going to go above my c-section scare but I got it on my arm instead and later will be adding the initials of my kids underneath


SECOND, A new addition to the family, Her name would be Shyla, and this little thing just makes my heart smile




And always save the best for last Im 20 weeks and 6 days today!!! First picture is from a couple days ago and the second is from 19 weeks


Well I think I may have went and wroute more then I was origanally expecting to, and please please forgive any and all spelling mistakes I very much do not want to go back and spell check this today haha. I hope everyone had themselves a wonderful weekend I promise next blog will be nothing but the positive no more pregnant grump

TATA


ETA:

I would like to change my main photo but I am computer stupid and have no idea how to photoshop or resize my photo if anyone who reads this knows how I would much appriciate the help I want to change it to one of these two pictures