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For the record I really hate it when people tell me how much they disagree with certain personal choices in my life. I get very harsh. Especially when the comment is begun with, "Man If I were you...."

I can understand people living vicariously through the actions of their peers. That makes sense to me. Enjoying a buddy hittin on a fresh new cutie, because you are taken and therefore can't. Cheering on someone who's succeeding in an opportunity you wish you hadn't squandered. This all makes sense.

But I do not need to hear about how you don't approve of my choice.

Here's the situation. I have ...."access" to a very attractive girl. She is drooled over by many. I am not really interested. There's something about her that just strikes me as "not for me". Mostly cuz I don't really think of girls that way until they do stuff to get me to think of them that way. So I don't really make any effort to be around her. She's cool as is. Why fix what ain't broke? Others can't seem to stomach this.

"Dude a guy like you? It's a crime to pass up the cuties who talk to you."

"Dude, you could so hook up with her!!! If I was in your shoes..."

"You'd do jack shit!!!! You fucking pussies!!!"

They have the same ability to say hi that I do. She's only a phone call or email away! You are in generally the same situation as I am and you're cowering like a lil bitch. You think girls like that? Think that turns them on? Jealous lil punks giving guys a hard time because the right girl says hello to them and they say hello back?

You like her? Do something about it. I on the otherhand see no reason to ask a girl out I have no interest in. What possible purpose is there in that? Sex? There are literally thousands of cute girls in my city alone. Wanna narrow it down? Age? Hair color? bra size? nationality? Think that changes things? Ok let's see. How many brunettes who aren't ugly and don't have a chip on their shoulder have I seen in the last week? Out of them, how many are single? Wow a shit load.

News flash. Women are everywhere. I know it's hard to fathom, but it's true. Go look outside. Everywhere. There are even enuff that they have there own bathrooms. Gosh, a freakin revelation I know. Look there's one, and another!!! Holy shit!!!

There is no reason to jump at the first nice cleavage you see. There WILL be another around the corner. That's why women can go out and not care if they meet a guy. They KNOW that when they want one they can find one. That's also why there are girls who treat us like shit and get away with it. Guys think that they can't replace a hot girl.

So no more emails saying I'm stupid for not sleeping, or dating some of the girls I post with. I like being single and if u you like em so much, you do it. Until one put's effort into me I see no reason to waste valuable time telling girls who know they are hot that they are a thousand times a week. Like they cured cancer or something.

Don't get me wrong some of them are gorgeous, but been there, seen that. I just think it's a standard thing if you bathe regularly and know how to dress. Kinda comes with the territory. Not worth being shy and petty over.



PS That's why I always say no to most friend invites. I prefer better conversation topics, than 30 minutes discussing Apnea's nipples. Which are nice but they were there yesterday and will prolly be there tomorrow. Not news.

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