calvintied

Wow, divorce is like leprocy. Only its a special kind of leprocy that single, available women get repulsed by. I don't even want to admit to it anymore, but how do you describe what you have been upto over the last few years without referring to it. I'm trying to say things like, "I was in a very bad relationship" or "I've been learning more about the psychosis of paranoid Pschysophrenics", but it comoes down to one thing. Sometimes we all make mistakes of choosing the wrong person.

It doesn't matter if you got married, moved in with them, or just dated for a while, sometimes you just don't see what someone is capable of, until they get way out of hand, or in my case, what they do when they stop taking their medication. I guess everyone is a lot more judgemental than they choose to admit to.

I'm standing on a soap box because I'm sick of a whole bunch of shit. Most of alll I guess it is the belief that divorce = death, when for some divorce = rebirth. I know I just take too seriously the opinions of others, but its hard when you are reaching out for new social connections and getting slapped back all the time.

Any suggestions out there? And please no "ya know, things will get better" comments. They are reassuring no more. I would prefer a "stop being a baby and choke it up" comment even more.