Well, let me say I know I’m a bit late, but I have been traveling, and I like to give myself the time to enjoy that! (Blogs to come about that)
Now, I have hooked up with quite a few girls actually. For a while in my life, I struggled with the idea I may be bi-sexual. I grew up on the east coast, a much more conservative side. I also come from an incredibly religious family. So, it was difficult mentally the first time it happened for me… and when it kept happening, I was like what the hell. The majority of times it happened when I was pretty inebriated, but I have had some sober hookups too.
It was a really weird time for me… I was ashamed of my actions. My life/ thoughts really changed for the better when I moved to the west coast, and I became very grounded with who I was/ who I am. I believe that the female body is absolutely beautiful. I love to take pictures of the body in general, it incredible to me… but the female figure is simply meant to be loved. However, I realize now that being attracted to a female doesn’t make you bi-sexual, it makes me human. I could never date a girl, it’s just not the type of relationship I could form.
I am incredibly comfortable with my sexuality. I have had a few open relationships with girls, but nothing too serious. I just can’t see it going that far for me. I’ve had quite a few really good connections with females… nothing that surpasses the relationship I have with my boyfriend now.
However, there is one girl in my life (remaining nameless) that I have an incredible connection with. I would consider dating her, but she lives on the other side of the country. We actually have never been intimate, though we have talked about it. Definitely, my soulmate.
