cakemix

on again.
baby toyboy got in touch and we met up tonight and seems we are on again.
no problem for me. i like the sex.

and i got another tattoo - photos when it's unwrapped!

well today is a wash-out...literally!
was so looking forward to spending the afternoon in the park with the lovely Fanny but the english july weather has conspired against us. it's like a monsoon here in central london - but a cold monsoon. at least when i get caught in rainstorms in ibiza its warm...mmm ibiza. miss it. but instead of heading to the summer sizzling...
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not the weekend i had planned - n not in a good way...

friday my dreadlock client had to cancel as her poor doggy dislocated it's tail.

saturday i finally had to have the real talk with the boytoy about our relationship that isn't really a relationship but we are supposed to be exclusive...yea. right. no. that exclusive thing? if you cancel plans and then...
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okay time to get a bit political on your asses.
some of you know my background as a feminist activist and member of anti-censorship group FAC, and editor of the anthology tales from the clit that was published way back when some of you were in diapers...still, alot of the book is VERY RELEVANT - especially when women like PUSSY RIOT are put in jail...
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dinner and a comedy with the kids - ravenisis and jezabel....

too full of olives, going to burst!

quick update before i hit the gym.
i've gained a few more kilos back than is acceptable so need to go work those babies off!
today is supposed to be upper boday...
...but i'm already sore from yesterday and can't think of what i did, except crank the crosstrainer up
(this one goes to eleven, lol)

i'm also hitting the gym as mood-wise i'm struggling...
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so it's been a nice couple months with the boytoy but with all the is it/isn't it bullshit i am getting pretty tired of it and no longer finding it fun - that, coupled with the fact that he is absolutely pigshit thick and just gets stupider when he drinks - thinking it's time to call it a day. coming so soon out of a...
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so wtf?
the boytoy wants us to be exclusive but does not want a relationship...

i checked with my daughter RavenIsis and that's still what a relationship is.
the kid really isn't too bright is he?

still playing with my beautiful boytoy and still bellydancing - have had a couple shows at least since my last post. yesterday was the first saturday that i took off for ages so that the boy and i could hang out in the very rare british sunshine. of course we got out of bed later than planned, but it was worth it...i love it when...
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