Today I did nothing on purpose. I sat back, I relaxed I did pretty much nothing constructive. I have been lazy lately and posting the same things here as I do on my LJ. But tonight I rectify that.
Granted I dont really have anything to write about. Well I can be bitchy and complain about being single, but Im not very lonely tonight. Sort of like background radiation, I just have background loneliness tonight.
And Im planning on holding Abbey to her word about introducing me to cool people she knows. Then again I dont think shes going to get to do too much of that this week. Her boy is in town, so I expect them to be spending lots of time together. \/wink\/ \/wink\/ Say no more Eh?
Im curious as to how things went after I left them last night. Its an odd situation. Ive been hanging around with Erin (my Ex girlfriends former best friend), and Abbey (My Exs current roommate) a lot more than my Ex has. Sort of a strange thing, because if Ex stopped to think about it for a while it may seem to her that I have stolen her friends away from her. While in reality she has driven them away. Now the two of them are getting closer and are thinking that they are each other best friends.
My Ex wouldnt let Abbeys boyfriend (Devon) sleep in the house (she doesnt like him from a time when she lived with him and a couple other people in the past). Now Im thinking that he may have changed a little seeing as how that was YEARS ago, AND he has been in the army sense then. It would be nice of Ex to give him another shot. See if he still engages in the same sort of behavior. In talking with him, there isnt really much of a reason for this dislike either, at least not that he is aware of. And he commented that he thought she was not good people.
Furthermore she also wouldnt let her former best friend stay in the house when she got kicked out of the place she was living in. She was living with her Ex Boyfriends Parents. Yeah. Not the best situation. Further more, when Ex and I were together we made time for her to see Erin. They would come over and hang out. They communicated. Well apparently she hasnt talked with Erin in quite some time, at a time in her life when Im sure that Erin could use a friend.
And Im sure that Ex has her reasons for what she has said and done. Im sure that if she and I were to speak about it she would give lines of reasoning that would be very solid and thought out. But its all bullshit! I will do things for my best friend happily. Lend him money, pick up his kid, help him discuss deep troubling things in his life. There are certain things that he does that get on my nerves, but I would still give him the clothes off my back, and the sofa in my house (if I had one of my own). Exs loyalty to her friends has shown to be lacking.
So despite my Exs wishes they all went to crash at their place last night after a night of drinking and Karaoke. I am of two minds on the subject. The mean evil part of me wants her to get pissed and be angry with them, thereby adding fuel to the fires of dislike already growing in just about all partys involved, because Im still angry at her and want her to suffer. But on the other hand, I want her to wizen up, realize that shes not treating her friends very well, and be a better person for it.
Apparently some part of me still has not given up on her. But that part is still wise enough to realize that shes not really a great person right now, and I should avoid her at all costs. And for more reasons than just her ripping my heart out at the end of our relationship. And certainly not least of all its pissing off people that she calls friend, and people that she has to live with. Ive been gripping all this time about the effect on me but its mostly effecting Abbey and Erin at this point.
Well one thing can be said, Im glad Im not with her right now. Then again if I were, I would not be letting her get away with treating her friends so poorly.
Ok. It looks like I did have something to write about. Yup nothing like dredging up the drama to fill out a boring night.
Granted I dont really have anything to write about. Well I can be bitchy and complain about being single, but Im not very lonely tonight. Sort of like background radiation, I just have background loneliness tonight.
And Im planning on holding Abbey to her word about introducing me to cool people she knows. Then again I dont think shes going to get to do too much of that this week. Her boy is in town, so I expect them to be spending lots of time together. \/wink\/ \/wink\/ Say no more Eh?
Im curious as to how things went after I left them last night. Its an odd situation. Ive been hanging around with Erin (my Ex girlfriends former best friend), and Abbey (My Exs current roommate) a lot more than my Ex has. Sort of a strange thing, because if Ex stopped to think about it for a while it may seem to her that I have stolen her friends away from her. While in reality she has driven them away. Now the two of them are getting closer and are thinking that they are each other best friends.
My Ex wouldnt let Abbeys boyfriend (Devon) sleep in the house (she doesnt like him from a time when she lived with him and a couple other people in the past). Now Im thinking that he may have changed a little seeing as how that was YEARS ago, AND he has been in the army sense then. It would be nice of Ex to give him another shot. See if he still engages in the same sort of behavior. In talking with him, there isnt really much of a reason for this dislike either, at least not that he is aware of. And he commented that he thought she was not good people.
Furthermore she also wouldnt let her former best friend stay in the house when she got kicked out of the place she was living in. She was living with her Ex Boyfriends Parents. Yeah. Not the best situation. Further more, when Ex and I were together we made time for her to see Erin. They would come over and hang out. They communicated. Well apparently she hasnt talked with Erin in quite some time, at a time in her life when Im sure that Erin could use a friend.
And Im sure that Ex has her reasons for what she has said and done. Im sure that if she and I were to speak about it she would give lines of reasoning that would be very solid and thought out. But its all bullshit! I will do things for my best friend happily. Lend him money, pick up his kid, help him discuss deep troubling things in his life. There are certain things that he does that get on my nerves, but I would still give him the clothes off my back, and the sofa in my house (if I had one of my own). Exs loyalty to her friends has shown to be lacking.
So despite my Exs wishes they all went to crash at their place last night after a night of drinking and Karaoke. I am of two minds on the subject. The mean evil part of me wants her to get pissed and be angry with them, thereby adding fuel to the fires of dislike already growing in just about all partys involved, because Im still angry at her and want her to suffer. But on the other hand, I want her to wizen up, realize that shes not treating her friends very well, and be a better person for it.
Apparently some part of me still has not given up on her. But that part is still wise enough to realize that shes not really a great person right now, and I should avoid her at all costs. And for more reasons than just her ripping my heart out at the end of our relationship. And certainly not least of all its pissing off people that she calls friend, and people that she has to live with. Ive been gripping all this time about the effect on me but its mostly effecting Abbey and Erin at this point.
Well one thing can be said, Im glad Im not with her right now. Then again if I were, I would not be letting her get away with treating her friends so poorly.
Ok. It looks like I did have something to write about. Yup nothing like dredging up the drama to fill out a boring night.