Being the watcher that I am, I noticed something that I had not seen before while keeping my eye on all of Emergence. I saw something tonight and realization crept across me. It was not a thought that slammed into me with full force. But it sort of congealed into being.
I watched as my freind had four or more women dancing with him. And more than just dancing was going on. I also watched as an attractive young girl went from guy to guy around the room and asked them to dance, only to end up dancing with some jerk that she wasnt really comfortable with.
These two events made me realize that those people that do dance attract people. It is not a matter of good or bad, learned or beginner, it is entirely about do or do not. Now my friend is new to this whole dancing thing, and that must be noted He's not really great. But he was still FAR, FAR better than anyone that didnt stand up at all. And he is certainly better than I would be if I were out there.
I have noted this. And I am already seeing it changing me. There were moments when I wanted to wordlessly take the hand of that young girl and lead her to the dance floor. Not for anything mischievous, but just for some simple fun. I was, however, entranced by her form and movement. (Maybe its for the best, things like that end up meaning too much for me.)
Well those are my meditations for the night. Perhaps I will improve myself. Perhaps I am ready to dance, because for the first time I want to.
So Emergence (http://emergenceclub.com) was grand. It is definitely ramping up. There were one or two new people last week, there were tons of new people this week. Everyone should go! Get your goth on and come teach me how to dance.
I watched as my freind had four or more women dancing with him. And more than just dancing was going on. I also watched as an attractive young girl went from guy to guy around the room and asked them to dance, only to end up dancing with some jerk that she wasnt really comfortable with.
These two events made me realize that those people that do dance attract people. It is not a matter of good or bad, learned or beginner, it is entirely about do or do not. Now my friend is new to this whole dancing thing, and that must be noted He's not really great. But he was still FAR, FAR better than anyone that didnt stand up at all. And he is certainly better than I would be if I were out there.
I have noted this. And I am already seeing it changing me. There were moments when I wanted to wordlessly take the hand of that young girl and lead her to the dance floor. Not for anything mischievous, but just for some simple fun. I was, however, entranced by her form and movement. (Maybe its for the best, things like that end up meaning too much for me.)
Well those are my meditations for the night. Perhaps I will improve myself. Perhaps I am ready to dance, because for the first time I want to.
So Emergence (http://emergenceclub.com) was grand. It is definitely ramping up. There were one or two new people last week, there were tons of new people this week. Everyone should go! Get your goth on and come teach me how to dance.