Chasing a new girl. This one either isn't running that fast [i.e.: she likes me] or I'm actually the 'playboy' my roommate describes me as. I'm thinking she's not running very fast.
My only concern, well not the 'only' one, is an age gap. I'm 32 and she is a spry 22. She says its no big deal and is only worried that I might think its a big deal.
You know, all that "Age is just a number" crap.
And it is crap. Age isn't just a number. Its a number of years of life and experience of life. A few years can mean all the difference in the way someone reacts, thinks, and approaches life.
She seems pretty on the level and mature...most of the time....but...?
But?! "But" really just means that I over analyze my own life and those I interact with. If I'm looking at someone elses life I can make predictions and profile personalities on a truly creepy level. BUT, when it comes to MY life, I go right off the deep end. I can talk myself out of anything or worse yet, into anything. I just need to think about it enough.
So anyway, I'm kind of seeing a girl 10 years my younger and I'm not sure how to feel about it.
It's spontaneous and odd. Example: Last Sunday night we had our second meeting. I got home from work early and she happened to be online. Out of nowhere she said, "Wanna come on down and spend the night?" I thought she was joking as we had only met in person for the first time 2 days earlier. I teased her about it and she laughed a little and said, No really, get in your car and come. 10 minutes later I was showered, in my PJs and on the road (41 miles one-way to Tempe from my place).
I got there in no time (it was 11:30pm and I was almost alone on Eastbound Hwy 60). She greeted me at the door with a peck on the cheek (we had necked a little on our first encounter) and led me to the bedroom where we slipped into bed, in out flannel PJs, and slept. We slept in the same bed for the sake of sleeping in the same bed and being there when we woke up. And we were and it was perfect.
So, what am I to do? It all seems so comfy and so right but there is this age thing that is gnawing at me and.and I dont know what to do about it.GRRRRR! I ALWAYS know what to do about it! GRRRRRRR!
Any helpful hints???
-c
P.S. Hey PH, was that non-cryptic enough for you
My only concern, well not the 'only' one, is an age gap. I'm 32 and she is a spry 22. She says its no big deal and is only worried that I might think its a big deal.
You know, all that "Age is just a number" crap.
And it is crap. Age isn't just a number. Its a number of years of life and experience of life. A few years can mean all the difference in the way someone reacts, thinks, and approaches life.
She seems pretty on the level and mature...most of the time....but...?
But?! "But" really just means that I over analyze my own life and those I interact with. If I'm looking at someone elses life I can make predictions and profile personalities on a truly creepy level. BUT, when it comes to MY life, I go right off the deep end. I can talk myself out of anything or worse yet, into anything. I just need to think about it enough.
So anyway, I'm kind of seeing a girl 10 years my younger and I'm not sure how to feel about it.
It's spontaneous and odd. Example: Last Sunday night we had our second meeting. I got home from work early and she happened to be online. Out of nowhere she said, "Wanna come on down and spend the night?" I thought she was joking as we had only met in person for the first time 2 days earlier. I teased her about it and she laughed a little and said, No really, get in your car and come. 10 minutes later I was showered, in my PJs and on the road (41 miles one-way to Tempe from my place).
I got there in no time (it was 11:30pm and I was almost alone on Eastbound Hwy 60). She greeted me at the door with a peck on the cheek (we had necked a little on our first encounter) and led me to the bedroom where we slipped into bed, in out flannel PJs, and slept. We slept in the same bed for the sake of sleeping in the same bed and being there when we woke up. And we were and it was perfect.
So, what am I to do? It all seems so comfy and so right but there is this age thing that is gnawing at me and.and I dont know what to do about it.GRRRRR! I ALWAYS know what to do about it! GRRRRRRR!
Any helpful hints???
-c
P.S. Hey PH, was that non-cryptic enough for you