cactusgeeves

My, did I have a lovely day today. I got a knock on the door from my ex's new bf. He said "We need to talk" So we did. He told me that he my ex were seeing each other about 2 months before we broke up. He didn't know about me, and felt bad about continuing the relationship, but he had fallen for her. I told him he was always "just a friend to her", even now, even though they were living together (though I did have a suspicion). He then shows proof that she had cheated on me before! Possibly in my own apartment! In my (then our) bed! She'd find these guys on adult friend finder and go from there. Looking back, I wonder if I, for a time, was another man. I don't know. I was feeling sadness at the failure of our relationship, but not anymore! Just anger and betrayal!! I don't blame her new bf (now, I guess, also an ex). Was he wrong to keep pursueing her? Yes, but it was her choice to be pursued. About the time that I saw that she started cheating (that I know of anyway!) was when our relationship really started to deteriorate. But, I took her word for things.

Of well, I will move on. I will be happy soon, but its just a lot to take, especially with how much I've been through the last two months, really.

And I didn't even get to go drinking today...