I really apologise for posting this so close to Christmas.
It is with deep sadness that I inform the community here that John passed away earlier this week, due to complications from surgery.
It was unexpected, and sudden, and we are all in a state of shock.
He was a very organised man. He was always writing. Making lists, Journaling. He loved words and language. But, the reason I bring that up is that I found amongst his personal papers and journals, a list of things he wished to happen in the event of his passing. Informing the Suicidegirls site was one of these things.
John had not been in good health in recent years. Some of you may have been aware of this. He was not really one to bother others with his struggles. That was just how he was. He had a big heart and he cared very much for his family and friends.
John was my closest and oldest friend. And now he is gone. I hope you will remember him fondly. Raise a glass of something to his memory. I think he would be mighty pleased.
I’m afraid I can’t and won’t be able to reply to messages or other posts here. Out of respect for John and his family, and also, because I just do not feel right doing that. I hope you will understand.
My love goes out to all who knew John.
M.C.
