okay, gang, i need your help on this one: i'm working on a book about why nice people couple up with not-so-nice people, and i need stories, testimonials, interviews, and all that kind of good stuff...if you have anything, email me at badboys@alangoldsher.com...the book is going to be along the lines of "he's just not that into you," and everything that gets discussed will remain confidential...can't wait to hear your tales of woe 