OK so here I am...an new life and a new beginning. 10 years can be considered a long relationship these days...my wife of 10 years and I recently separated. People can not understand that we are still good friends and hang out and bullshit and what not. We just do not love each other anymore and see no reason that we stay together for the sake of our children because all that will do is fuck them up in the end. We are both happy and are thankful for the fact that we can get along and make this transition to divorce a good one. Divorces and separations do not have to be hateful and/or ugly but you have to want to make it work...and that is what we are doing 