I have a confession to make.
I'm pretty boring and (IMHO) pretty charmless.
And you know what? I'm pretty okay with that.
Something's been really bugging me the past two years or so, though. I've always had a really solid idea of who I am as a person, you know? I've never really questioned that and still don't. I like to think I'm a good guy, a pretty decent individual. Hell, I've even helped little old ladies across the street (okay, there was only that one time, but still). Are there better? Well, yeah, obviously. I don't think that highly of myself and I don't think I've ever confessed to be anything that I wasn't.
OTOH, though, I'm not entirely sure I like how I am with girls. Don't get me wrong, I'm not a wife beater or verbal abuser or anything like that. Far from it, actually. It's just that I find myself acting a certain way around girls that I know are attracted to me and that I'm attracted to back and for whatever reason they respond positively to this and I don't even realize that I don't like that guy I'm acting like until later.
Quite frankly? I'm not that slick. I'm not that charming. I'm pretty boring and awkward to be honest (and I'm guessing not in the swoony Michael Cera way, either). But you know what? That's the guy I want girls to be attracted to because he's the real deal.
That other guy? He's a sham, a facade of a person I don't even like.
End of confession.
I'm pretty boring and (IMHO) pretty charmless.
And you know what? I'm pretty okay with that.
Something's been really bugging me the past two years or so, though. I've always had a really solid idea of who I am as a person, you know? I've never really questioned that and still don't. I like to think I'm a good guy, a pretty decent individual. Hell, I've even helped little old ladies across the street (okay, there was only that one time, but still). Are there better? Well, yeah, obviously. I don't think that highly of myself and I don't think I've ever confessed to be anything that I wasn't.
OTOH, though, I'm not entirely sure I like how I am with girls. Don't get me wrong, I'm not a wife beater or verbal abuser or anything like that. Far from it, actually. It's just that I find myself acting a certain way around girls that I know are attracted to me and that I'm attracted to back and for whatever reason they respond positively to this and I don't even realize that I don't like that guy I'm acting like until later.
Quite frankly? I'm not that slick. I'm not that charming. I'm pretty boring and awkward to be honest (and I'm guessing not in the swoony Michael Cera way, either). But you know what? That's the guy I want girls to be attracted to because he's the real deal.
That other guy? He's a sham, a facade of a person I don't even like.
End of confession.
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but you know what.
I still find people who like me.
and I'm sure you'll find a girl who likes you just the way you are.
the best relationships are the ones where you know that you were just being yourself
P.S. you don't seem as boring as you think you are