brisuscheez

So... Yes, maybe I'm breaking a little bit of confidence on here - but I figured this is more private than Facebook where this person has chosen to do this. Basically, I sent a private message to him and to my friend who is dating him basically saying:

"Hey- maybe I'm being narcissistic and paranoid, but are these posts about me? I mean, I just want to be clear. I have no ill will towards either one of you and I love both of you and I thought we were cool, but apparently there is a lot of animosity towards me and I don't know why. Just letting you know where I stand."

Here's what he's been posting about me (?):

About a post coming from me and my mom joking about our family being poor and my mom wrapped up like a mummy and my dad getting a colonoscopy and this devolved into my mom basically joking I'm going to be poor and homeless and living on the street upon graduation:

My post: So... my mom wants to know where I'm going to live when I leave VA with massive student loan debt this summer. Apparently staying in VA or coming home is not an option... Thanks mom. (Which was totally a joke between us and other posters took it that way!)

Mar B: Your 27 come on really? [Which I'm not] Your mom seems clueless to your comment why make her out to be a bad guy ? Seriously? Everyones to blame but yourself right ?!? Jeez your always the victim rethink that......
33 minutes ago via Facebook for iPhone

Where is this venom coming from? I understand I posted a bit of my mom's and my joke, so my business was out there for criticism, but hey - that's a lot of anger for something you really don't understand! I'm just speechless...

This is from after I never got a confirming call about a dogsitting gig when he and my friend went on vacation. I told them I'm sorry, but I expected the call or email to happen earlier in the month so I had already taken a second job, I was unable to pet sit. Furthermore, I thought it would be okay since 1) I'd have to drive 2 hours into the city to do this (which is difficult) and 2) I was told that my friend's co-worker could do it if I couldn't. So I really didn't think this was a big deal - but then my friend's boyfriend posted this:

Mar B: You know what kills me? When someone you call friend let's you down. Remember kids there only your friends when the check books out! You know who u are, and u should be ashamed of yourself I am glad your no friend of mine
September 3 at 9:13pm via Facebook for iPhone

So when my friend doesn't want to come in to see her own play I directed and produced and that's fine because she has to work, but I can't come in and watch their dog for two weeks because I have to work and I'm an evil person and a bad friend?

I know that okay, so he's involved because he's dating my friend. I just feel his anger is outrageous and misplaced and this is really between me and my friend - and my friend hasn't done anything like this at all and we've even talked a bunch since these things and I think everything's okay with her?

Am I completely naive?