i just put the little monkeys to bed and had an actual good talk with the x. she told me that my step daughters real father who hasn't see her in 5 1/2 yrs has finally contacted her. from jail !!! i guess he gets out in june and she is all worried about what kind of scumbage he will be when he gets out. but enough about that on to me. she said that she was very happy about how i treated my step daughter like she was my own. so much that the x some times forgets she's not . thats cool we normaly hate eachother so for her to be nice was a big deal . anyway she asked if i had a girls friend. and as we all know i am as alone as one person can be. we laughed and talked about how it used to be with use and how we can't believe we ever thought we were right for eachother. anyway . got to go to bed sunday is big breakfast day and pancakes take alot of mental energy. so to all you sg girlies out there one good guy looking for a good girlie with a big heart and the ink/piercings to match your truely brian666 