girl problems drive me nuts.
like should i act like i care or act like whatever ?
ok
i'm in need of advice.
so i've been seeing this girl over a month and the start was all good.
but now we've been like weird ackward situation. well at least for me.
shes not acting the way she did shes acting very distant she still shows that she wants to stay together 'dating"
but recently which was on monday she told me that shes been thinking a lot and that she needed space. so this whole weeek we didn't do anything didnt speak much and today we went out for lunch and a movie. but she was very distant.
i'm trying to work with the whole give me space thing
but when shes telling me shes having problems at home and feeling sick or whatever
i try to be there for her but how can i be there and make her feel i'm there without being to much?
i don't wanna ask her straight out whats her deal.. but i wanna know what shes feeling shes not telling me much. girls are dramatic sometimes.
i think this is why i was single for 2 years lol
well also shes afraid of getting hurt again. i know people get hurt. but like how can you live life and be happy without taking chances?
sure i'm afraid of getting hurt to who isn't right?
but why not take a chance with that person or whatever the problem is if you know you can make something good out of it?
exammple i bike ride
i was going down a hill hitting maybe 40+ mphs i took a big turn and crashed i was scared to do it again but i did it and now i'm boombing those hill.s
bleh. the way that shes acting it making me give up. it blows
what can i do.
like should i act like i care or act like whatever ?
ok
i'm in need of advice.
so i've been seeing this girl over a month and the start was all good.
but now we've been like weird ackward situation. well at least for me.
shes not acting the way she did shes acting very distant she still shows that she wants to stay together 'dating"
but recently which was on monday she told me that shes been thinking a lot and that she needed space. so this whole weeek we didn't do anything didnt speak much and today we went out for lunch and a movie. but she was very distant.
i'm trying to work with the whole give me space thing
but when shes telling me shes having problems at home and feeling sick or whatever
i try to be there for her but how can i be there and make her feel i'm there without being to much?
i don't wanna ask her straight out whats her deal.. but i wanna know what shes feeling shes not telling me much. girls are dramatic sometimes.
i think this is why i was single for 2 years lol
well also shes afraid of getting hurt again. i know people get hurt. but like how can you live life and be happy without taking chances?
sure i'm afraid of getting hurt to who isn't right?
but why not take a chance with that person or whatever the problem is if you know you can make something good out of it?
exammple i bike ride
i was going down a hill hitting maybe 40+ mphs i took a big turn and crashed i was scared to do it again but i did it and now i'm boombing those hill.s
bleh. the way that shes acting it making me give up. it blows
what can i do.
My boy gets super stressed and super anxious, particularly about work, and then I'm in the same place you are right now. Feeling awkward and out of sorts. Talking usually helps.