What if my family finds out?
I get by with stuff because I live 12 hours from my closest family member but really, I can't keep EVERYTHING a secret forever.
Or can I?
Guess what, Mom? I'm a Lesbian!
Guess what? I've got three piercings 'down there'.
Guess what? I'm kinky! I've been tied up and naked and beaten and played with in front of lots of people!
Guess what? My "friend" is actually a Mistress!
Any of these would cause half my family members (not joking) to be unable to talk to me because of religious reasons.
I hate hiding.
I get by with stuff because I live 12 hours from my closest family member but really, I can't keep EVERYTHING a secret forever.
Or can I?
Guess what, Mom? I'm a Lesbian!
Guess what? I've got three piercings 'down there'.
Guess what? I'm kinky! I've been tied up and naked and beaten and played with in front of lots of people!
Guess what? My "friend" is actually a Mistress!
Any of these would cause half my family members (not joking) to be unable to talk to me because of religious reasons.
I hate hiding.
Religious reasons or not, they are your family, and I truly believe they will always love you.
If you really believe they will die of shock, then that's your choice not to tell--but it's hell living in fear. And there's a difference in telling them your preference, and telling them all of the kinky details.
BTW, I have a HUGE crush on Abby from NCIS too!
*sigh*