i need a vacation from my relationship .. im tired of working on it..so tired.. of argueing having one day be good and the next four be stressful..i have my couples counseler one on one session on friday.. Is it worth all the effort.. when do oyu decide to give up..Help.. 
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I ended my realtionship because we will fight bad. I was also tired of working so hard for just a few good hours. We also didn't go through with having kids or anything..so that is harder. Sometimes though a child will be happier in a split family. My parents are still together so I don't know really but I remeber every fight they had...I even remember ones from when I was 3. But I think counsling with help anyone either to see what will work and what won't or how to make it better.
*good luck*
I am not sure if my snake is a girl or a boy, I will find out this week or next when I take it in.
My cat is doing a lot better thank you.
I think I would put as much effort into this realationship until you have tried everything and then you know you have given it your best. Best of luck to you.