i am not good at hanging out, kicking back, relaxing, and/or taking it easy. i have been trying very hard at it, i really have.
one of my two best friends in the universe came to boston (from philly) to spend a week with me. we haven't spent more than a few hours together in over two years, we had a very minor falling out, more of a growing apart (think enid and rebecca in ghost world only with two moderately attractive boys named jordan and chris playing the starring roles). he had some bad times hit and he needed to get away (and we've both been kind of yearning for that friendship that has been missing) so he hopped on a train and up he came.
we haven't done a damn thing but watch movies, watch tv, eat food, insult one anothers sexual abilities, play risk, and occassionally walk around. just like the old days.
but, i'm not good at hanging out. so i've been stressing all week about how bad i want to get back to work. to finish my brother's tattoo. work on my comic. work on my screenplay (i'm rewriting my horror movie), plan out my studio, work on my client's website...
a million things i can be doing.
instead, i'm chilling out, relaxing all cool with one of the greatest, most fun smart-asses i've ever met.
in some ways it's been an incredible week that i've wanted to happen for a long fucking time, but i still want it to end so i can work. i think i will miss the friendship, i haven't felt so not-lonely in ages (probably since he and i shared an apartment in 2000 - 2001). but, i want the solitude now. the hard work and the focus.
if only there was some way to have everything.
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also, i miss kissing girls. summertime is girl kissing time in my book. so, i guess i'm gonna need some girls to throw themselves at me, or i'm gonna need to get a whole hell of a lot more charming if that girl kissing thing is gonna happen. fuck, i can't even remember the last time i even HAD sex. it was in like january or something.
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in other news, my roommate asked chris and i how many girls we had each slept with and then called us dorks and said we made her feel like a whore.
chris had only slept with one.
can anybody guess how many i'd slept with?
what's "normal" for a 23 year old?
how many people have you slept with and how old are you?
this is something that has mystified me for quite some time, but i never thought to ask.
help a brother out.
one of my two best friends in the universe came to boston (from philly) to spend a week with me. we haven't spent more than a few hours together in over two years, we had a very minor falling out, more of a growing apart (think enid and rebecca in ghost world only with two moderately attractive boys named jordan and chris playing the starring roles). he had some bad times hit and he needed to get away (and we've both been kind of yearning for that friendship that has been missing) so he hopped on a train and up he came.
we haven't done a damn thing but watch movies, watch tv, eat food, insult one anothers sexual abilities, play risk, and occassionally walk around. just like the old days.
but, i'm not good at hanging out. so i've been stressing all week about how bad i want to get back to work. to finish my brother's tattoo. work on my comic. work on my screenplay (i'm rewriting my horror movie), plan out my studio, work on my client's website...
a million things i can be doing.
instead, i'm chilling out, relaxing all cool with one of the greatest, most fun smart-asses i've ever met.
in some ways it's been an incredible week that i've wanted to happen for a long fucking time, but i still want it to end so i can work. i think i will miss the friendship, i haven't felt so not-lonely in ages (probably since he and i shared an apartment in 2000 - 2001). but, i want the solitude now. the hard work and the focus.
if only there was some way to have everything.
***
also, i miss kissing girls. summertime is girl kissing time in my book. so, i guess i'm gonna need some girls to throw themselves at me, or i'm gonna need to get a whole hell of a lot more charming if that girl kissing thing is gonna happen. fuck, i can't even remember the last time i even HAD sex. it was in like january or something.
***
in other news, my roommate asked chris and i how many girls we had each slept with and then called us dorks and said we made her feel like a whore.
chris had only slept with one.
can anybody guess how many i'd slept with?
what's "normal" for a 23 year old?
how many people have you slept with and how old are you?
this is something that has mystified me for quite some time, but i never thought to ask.
help a brother out.
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friedbanana:
No, I haven't but I did stay with members of Brujeria for a few days while on tour. If you know them... 
2coolforschool:
Dude, you are the fucking man thanks for the new pic. And since you are such the man, im gonna guess some where in the neighborhood of 30-40 ladies. Fuckin Rock