I'll put this here too, and I'll acknowledge that it does sound a little cheesy at the end.

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On a personal note related to the question of wether you can choose to fall in love. In my late teens I tried to teach myself to NOT fall in love. It took a couple years to realize this was so far out of my personality that I was killing myself, my identity. So instead of trying not to be so foolish as to fall in love all the time I chose to not fight that aspect of myself and embrace it. Not only do I not generally fight it avoid it, I go for it, I intend to love. It's kinda like love is my default setting.
raindogdude:
I think that's the best default position one can have. 👊
bonediggy:
It's probably how we all are, before we get corrupted by the hurts that have been experienced by the people around us, let alone the hurts we go through ourselves.  

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