Struggles

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Ive always been insecure then i got married at a super young ange 20 and then i found out that my wife was cheating on me when i had to go to training. So that destroyed and any confidence i had left i can talk and flirt with girls online but in person im like a 2 year old that has no idea what to do. And half that girls im intrested in i cant even think about talking to because i just freeze up. In my option im a great guy super loyal and super kind. But our society has changed and i was raised old fashioned i guess because, i like to court women for example take you out to dinner hold doors open for you ext ext but i i just got dumped because i wouldnt make the first move because i dont have confidence to i hate being rejected. Any advice on how to not to be a 2 year old boy lol. Its not all sbout sex to me i like talking and building friendship with girls i get along better with women always have just cant talk to them as a potential girlfriend. Ugh im gonna be single forever

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athenae:
You need to build up your inner confidence, you've already pointed out in your post the qualities as a person you possess so you need to focus on those, stay true to yourself. I get the feeling a big part of not being able to talk to girls is through fear that the same thing will happen again, it's true that some people are that way inclined but not everyone has been painted with that brush. Perhaps you need to go around it a different way, lay all your cards on the table when you meet someone you like (like building a friendship first) that way a girl knows exactly what she is getting into without wondering if you are stringing her along. Remind yourself it's OK to get close to someone, put a little trust in there, just don't allow yourself to get too close too fast or dependant on her. I totally understand how you feel here, it's going to take a lot of faith and balls on your part. But it will pay off :)
ksew:
Sad to read that, hope things changed for you💗

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