bluepixie

I have to make a decison.I dont want to make the wrong one.I am 19 years old and practically still a newly wed since I have rarely seen my husband. But, my family needs someone to take custody of my 11 year old brother James and I am the one they are pointing to. I love him to death and I dont want to have any regrets later on in life....I dont know what to do. Kinda funny really, because I usually have an answer for everything, be it a smartass one or not.
I want to take my brother but I dont know how my husband would feel about that. There are so many things that I need to think about and so many things that complicate the situation.There is the money situation, because my husband ants us to save up that money for the land he wants to buy back in Virginia. Then there would be the whole me having to buy plane tickets to fly back to virginia and then buy plane tickets for me and my little brother to fly back to Hawaii.
I wish this was easy, I wish everything would go back to the way it was but that isnt how life is and there is nothing that I could do to change anything.
If only I werent 5000 miles away things would be much simpler.