blossy

Soooo...there's this girl....

She is so hot I get a girl boner just when she smiles. The thing is we've recently met, like within the past few months and we have gotten to know each other a bit. I went out to the Drag Show last night, she was there, we danced we hung out we had fun and then she and a bunch of my friends and I went to IHOP afterwards, all night it was pretty obvious to me that she was into one of my friends. This is not so, for when we get to IHOP she's all reserved the seat next to her for me and she keeps touching my knee where the cloth is torn and she is definitely rubbing and touching and keeps going in to kiss me but I am so like oblivious I don't realize it. We stand outside and talk for hours (with another friend who basically was my cock-block since she knows I am attracted to this girl but I'm not a hop into bed with just anyone type of girl, however I know that I so would with this woman). Finally we get to my car she has to go home and such and my friend needs a ride. Anyway, I hug her and then she kisses me. For the first time a woman I'm interested in has actually pursued me and not left me to do the pursuing and now I am freaking out, I have no idea how to handle the situation, she keeps texting me and I want sex with no strings and I've been told that's how she wants it, by people who know her well, the thing is she is unaware of the fact that I know she has a wife in Iraq and they have an open relationship but she doesn't ever mention her wife, she doesn't say anything she avoids all talk about the Army because then she will have to say something about her wife. I am a tad concerned that she might be that into me that she is neglecting to be honest about it because she is worried about my response. I talk about my husband with everyone all the time, I never neglect to mention him if a certain situation comes up or if I want to mention something he's said or done because we have a truly open relationship and right now we are not actively together anyway. I don't want to approach her on the subject either because I am not really certain of what I am going to say, if that makes sense, and I don't want to come off as some crazy stalker chick who knows a lot about her but is pretending to play hard to get. It's also weird because "So my friends mentioned you have a wife in IRaq" doesn't come off so well either, it comes off as if I am fishing for relationship status so that I can set us up in a relationship.