Yes, please! I will *always* work for equality.
I need to become a much better activist, this video reminds me of that. I do Take Back the Night, Pride and Pride Prom (equality dance for LGBT community, where your prom date is the person you want to take with you not the one society says you should take with you.) I am a community liaison...
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I finally caught up on sleep. I've been so tired lately, but it's been for a good reason, spending time with a certain someone who makes me all nervous and jumpy and my pulse just flutter and then speed up.
I am happy, there are things that are not happy spots in my day or whatever; and sometimes I just vent about how my husband...
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I am happy, there are things that are not happy spots in my day or whatever; and sometimes I just vent about how my husband...
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kekiface:
Sweetness!!!! =D
misty21:
You are so strong and beautiful.
You totally deserve to be happy and giddy. Plus you're super cute when you blush =)
You totally deserve to be happy and giddy. Plus you're super cute when you blush =)
So, I took some pictures with my crappy webcam and I wanted to share them. I am getting more and more happy with my body as I lose weight and tone up and also, I love this sweater dress, it's so totally a "just because you can doesn't mean you should" outfit for me, but I wear it anyway. I am so narcissistic about myself...
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missmalice_:
What I like best about it, is every time you text me I see you're beautiful face because everything is synced with FB 
And I couldn't agree with you more, already most of the debt has been taken care of I'm managing money a lot better now than before so I'm paving the way to move WOOOO
And I couldn't agree with you more, already most of the debt has been taken care of I'm managing money a lot better now than before so I'm paving the way to move WOOOO
missmalice_:
Please! He's been begging for me to send him your number but I figured if it was fine with you, you'd give it to him on your own 
He's trying to steal my woman!?! Silly boy
He's trying to steal my woman!?! Silly boy
Last week's fat positive blog is one of my all time favorites however I think this blog needed a follow up so here it is.
I was asked to answer a question about acceptance of myself while making healthy choices. The balance I find between acceptance and knowing I need to make healthier choices in some arenas of my life is simple. I love me...
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I was asked to answer a question about acceptance of myself while making healthy choices. The balance I find between acceptance and knowing I need to make healthier choices in some arenas of my life is simple. I love me...
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ladyaurale:
Been dealing with the same issues. Finally was fine with how I looked, then sorted out some issues and started loosing weight. Now I can't seem to find that happy place again even though I'm 100 pounds less. I just keep thinking of where I want to be, and driving myself crazy for not being there. My friends and my relationships are all supportive, but they seem overly excited my the weight loss... what if I can't live up to the pictures in their heads? What if I gain it all back. Ugh. I don't feel sexy anymore. 
missmalice_:
Aww thanks babe. I mean I'm just tired of not being able to give them the life they deserve and my area doesnt have the jobs I need, so maybe when they are older they will see I was trying to get them things they needed or wanted and I refused to accept my life was over just because I had them You gonna be in chat tonight??
You gonna be in chat tonight??Dear SG,
There is something I think everyone should know about me.
I'm a fat kid, now before anyone tells me something like "you are not fat" I beg to differ. I truly am. I don't use "fat" in a self loathing way I use it in an empowering way; kind of "taking back" the word "fat". To anyone who would call me fat and...
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There is something I think everyone should know about me.
I'm a fat kid, now before anyone tells me something like "you are not fat" I beg to differ. I truly am. I don't use "fat" in a self loathing way I use it in an empowering way; kind of "taking back" the word "fat". To anyone who would call me fat and...
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led_lawless:
I recently started a relationship with a friend I've had for over a decade; and it couldn't happen until we both started to, at least, get over our unnecessarily negative images of ourselves. I couldn't make a move until I could believe she would want someone like me, and she couldn't respond positively until she was able to reach past those feelings about herself. So, I think you're dead on the money, hon.
keilyn:
bloss... first off can you be my wifey#2?? I fuckin love you!!! For now, I am using a droid that my friend gave me. Shes a blackberry user and when she got the droid she hated it so it stayed in a box and she gave it to me so I cant bitch. My gripe with it, I cant figure out how to fucking use it. I had verizons LG ENV Touch so this phone is like a hand held computer and I am starting to see all the apps that i can access etc its fun and frustrating at once.
As far as this deployment goes... its kicking my ass literally. I dont know how i can manage some days but.... what doesnt kill me will hopefully make me stronger. I miss ur grogeous face!!! <333
As far as this deployment goes... its kicking my ass literally. I dont know how i can manage some days but.... what doesnt kill me will hopefully make me stronger. I miss ur grogeous face!!! <333
I love, love, love classical music. I love Bach, I love Beethoven, I love Bach's Cello Suite in C Minor iPrelude and Beethoven's "Moonlight Sonata" probably the most by far. Though, I love it all really, Stravinsky, Tchakovsky, Chopin, Schubert...yes please.
Life has been odd lately. I've written my heart out about my marriage both here and on paper. I am learning that sharing it...
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Life has been odd lately. I've written my heart out about my marriage both here and on paper. I am learning that sharing it...
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noldor_:
hi sexy girl
Ever been so happy that you don't know whether or not you should be basking in the glow or trying to stay one step ahead because it feels too good to be true? I'm experiencing that right now. I told you all about the pretty lady in my last blog and now I am going to tell you all about my insecurities.
I am afraid...
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I am afraid...
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user209834982:
You're beautiful darling. Obviously, me saying that isn't going to cure you of the issue, but really, you have no reason to be insecure.
9005900:
Being happy is the main thing!!! 
Dear SG,
It's official this girl who I've been completely smitten with since I met her a few years ago (online) is now completely aware of how I feel about her and she feels the same way about me. I can't get her out of my head, I can't stop wanting to be around her and when I sleep I dream of her. The minute...
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It's official this girl who I've been completely smitten with since I met her a few years ago (online) is now completely aware of how I feel about her and she feels the same way about me. I can't get her out of my head, I can't stop wanting to be around her and when I sleep I dream of her. The minute...
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dpgc44:
Damn it! ok nevermind then..lol You can send me a picture so I can see what the lovers look like..lol
tnicole29:
Thanks hun. Yeah i've been going through a ton of shit lately. I guess thats what happens when you don't go to the doctor for 4 1/2 years. I'm going to start training for a marathon. I'm excited it's something i really just want to accomplish. I know there are people that i know that are like oh you're gonna lose a lot of weight and i could care less either way i like the way i am. People don't seem to realize that you can like being chubby.. My boyfriend is amazing because he stands by me no matter what. He's really been amazing through what i've been going through and i couldn't do it without him. I just made him sign up for health insurance because he hasn't been to a real doctor in longer than i have been. but yeah it's been rough lately but it'll be okay. it's just going to be different.
I'm officially 31, it doesn't have the ring to it that 30 does.
My husband and I have worked some things out and he has moved back into the house. He has his Master's and so will I, in English Cultural Studies and yet neither of us has a job with a University as of yet. He's hoping to get a full-time position at Best...
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My husband and I have worked some things out and he has moved back into the house. He has his Master's and so will I, in English Cultural Studies and yet neither of us has a job with a University as of yet. He's hoping to get a full-time position at Best...
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justrodan:
Happy Birthday! (almost two weeks late but hey, whatcha gonna do)
lielock:
ahh I know but saying no is hard for me it just doesn't work so I don't bother. I am just hoping I can just stay single because I am tired of feeling like crap about myself because some dude didn't think I was worthy of anything. I wish I had the same opinion of myself but thank you for thinking that....will be something good to read when I have the blah blahs of myself.
Soooo...there's this girl....
She is so hot I get a girl boner just when she smiles. The thing is we've recently met, like within the past few months and we have gotten to know each other a bit. I went out to the Drag Show last night, she was there, we danced we hung out we had fun and then she and a bunch of...
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She is so hot I get a girl boner just when she smiles. The thing is we've recently met, like within the past few months and we have gotten to know each other a bit. I went out to the Drag Show last night, she was there, we danced we hung out we had fun and then she and a bunch of...
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user209834982:
Any developments?
lielock:
my god I love you!!! <3 I was on my crappy connect when I saw the blog comment and forgot to respond but just saw what you wrote as a testimonial and I got a little misty. Yah no I doubt I will ever leave for real. I have met the best people here just not many of you guys are around that much. But thank you that is such a cheer up that I can read on any bad day
Well, things are getting better'ish. My husband is still gone, but I understand why he has to be gone more and more and also, we're working on things. I like him a lot and he makes me happier now than he has for awhile so that's good. Finances are still wayyyyy shaky but looking up at the moment as well.
I don't know how much...
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I don't know how much...
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leib_:
:hear:
user209834982:
Glad that things are going okay. We shall miss you.
My husband left me this past Sunday. I mean he says it is a "break" or whatever but honestly it doesn't feel as if he wants to come back. He had really bad anxiety issues before he left and he admits that the anxiety was caused because of how he was feeling and didn't know how to tell me, but he told me and now...
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elvis:
How are things going in life for you now doll?
I wanted to check in on you
I wanted to check in on you
ravioli:
so, whats the word?
And I will be sure to answer your questions.
I absolutely adore the Irish accent though and I cannot wait to visit there!