What is going on in my life? Well, I am coasting at my job going, "Whoopie. Yahoo. SO excited to be here." The love of my life will be out of his home and officially couch surfing as of Wednesday and there isn't a damn thing I can do. Luckily, we have a friend that has his own place who has graciously offered to let him stay for a couple weeks. Unfortunately, he had a really bad experience with another friend staying for a while and is a little gun-shy of too long a situation. After that, if he can't find a job here in the greater Boston area, he has to go back and crash with his folks, again, in FLORIDA!!! 
Neither one of us wants that in any way. Then the obvious question becomes this: Do I go too? Well, not such a cut and dry answer because I HATE HATE HATE the heat. I am a nordic girl with thick skin suited for cold weather. Besides, my snowboard would get lonely. Also, I am hoping to get into Mass Art for the fall for grad school. There is a school or two down there, but I am not too keen on the heat thing. BEsides, all my family, well except for an aunt and my grandmother (who I would then be 45mins away from) are up here. MY parents and I are close and all my closest college buds are in NH. It is his community of friends there. NOt that I haven't met them, I have and they are great. It is just that I would be going into his scene that he grew up in. It would be very hard to get a separate identity from him as his GF. Did I mention I hate hot weather? But all of this would also depend on how long he would need to be there. It is pretty cheap to live there and he could probably get a job back in computers closer up to what he used to make so he could get caught up on bills and then come back. So it could only be a matter of months. But then it could be much longer. Could I stand being away from my mate that much? There would be visits, true, but still... I hate that he is so stressed out and there is not a god damn thing I can do but love him and offer emotional support. I guess that will have to cound for a lot.
Neither one of us wants that in any way. Then the obvious question becomes this: Do I go too? Well, not such a cut and dry answer because I HATE HATE HATE the heat. I am a nordic girl with thick skin suited for cold weather. Besides, my snowboard would get lonely. Also, I am hoping to get into Mass Art for the fall for grad school. There is a school or two down there, but I am not too keen on the heat thing. BEsides, all my family, well except for an aunt and my grandmother (who I would then be 45mins away from) are up here. MY parents and I are close and all my closest college buds are in NH. It is his community of friends there. NOt that I haven't met them, I have and they are great. It is just that I would be going into his scene that he grew up in. It would be very hard to get a separate identity from him as his GF. Did I mention I hate hot weather? But all of this would also depend on how long he would need to be there. It is pretty cheap to live there and he could probably get a job back in computers closer up to what he used to make so he could get caught up on bills and then come back. So it could only be a matter of months. But then it could be much longer. Could I stand being away from my mate that much? There would be visits, true, but still... I hate that he is so stressed out and there is not a god damn thing I can do but love him and offer emotional support. I guess that will have to cound for a lot.
I feel your pain it is a tough tough situation. I cannot even try to give advice. all I can do is add my support, for whatever it may be worth.
Good luck guys.