blargzilla

Oh man, maybe is just jaded me, but I read over your last few blogs. Sent her flowers, took to your favorite Chinese place, stayed over but nothing happened, then you made her breakfast in bed? I realize there are exceptions to every rule and one size seldom fits all. BUT this is NOT what women want!! I know it's what they SAY they want, and at some level they might even think they want it, but at the core they really don't want NICE GUYS, and you my friend sound like a really nice guy!!

Not to say you have to be an absolute DICK, but better to show less interest than to show too much. It's basic, human nature, people always want what they can't have!! Men have a tendency to be stupid when it comes to women and pretty much universally suffer from the illusion that the more you do for her, the better she'll like you. NOTHING could be further from the truth!! The more you do for her and pursue her, the more you'll come off as looking weak and needy!! I hate to say it, but if you continue down this path you're going to end up in the dreaded "Friend" category, a bottomless abyss and unfulfilled desires. FUCK taking it slow, close the deal with her!! If she's really into to you, she'll be only too happy to go there with you. If not, cut your losses before you waste anymore time and/or emotion in her. Women are not fragile, little flowers that you have to care and nurture. They're really not so much different than you and me when it comes to all the basics. They have all the same needs and desires that we have, so don't be her buddy, be her man, it's what she's looking for.

I really don't want to be a buzzkill, but sitting on the outside looking in, it appears that you are ripe for heartbreak if you don't take charge of this situation, and I'd hate your next blog to be some lamenting about her being gone and you not understanding what happened? Those kind of blogs saturate this site every fucking day!!

i see where strider is comin from but i also think that's stupid.... also, if you guys haven't done the deed yet, then she will pursue it even more, just like his argument supports. anyways...
you're so friggin sweet!!! i think this is all very cute :3